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Hi, I'm Tina and I'm rich. If there's one thing
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we've learned in over twenty years of marriage.
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It's some days you'll feel like killing your.
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Wife and some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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Welcome to a bonus episode of Love Mary Kill Ki to.
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Your way friends, your.
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Happy birthday, America, Happy Birthday America. How are you?
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I'm doing good.
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How are you happy to have a day off?
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I am happy to have a three day weekend.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, it's gonna be good.
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I had you play that opening music today, be Kind
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to your web Footed Friends, which is a parody of
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Star and Stripes Forever, reminds me of my grandpa. I
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don't know if I've ever told you this before. My
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grandpa used to sing that song all the time.
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Really, it was just always.
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You know, a tune he was whistling. And my grandpa,
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my mom's dad, was just really special to me growing up.
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And he had two of his toes on both feet
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were webs. Oh wow, Have I ever told you that before?
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I don't think so.
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And it's a family trait. Like my sister hers don't
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go up as far as my grandpa's did. I think
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mine are completely normal. But it's just kind of a
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kind of a funny trait that some.
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People have that is interesting. I did not know that.
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Well, thank you to our listener Monica for recommending this
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case today. It's a really interesting and even though someone
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gets murdered, it's kind of a fun case. And I
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was going to do it for a Patrion episode, but
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I just couldn't get enough to get to an hour,
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so I thought, oh, why not just release it as
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a bonus episode. And I think this episode will be
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a little bit lighter and maybe appropriate for a family
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listening while you're on your way home from your Fourth
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of July festivities. So I hope everyone enjoys this episode.
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But I love the fourth of Independence Day or the
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fourth of July. I think it's a great holiday.
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Why do you love it so much?
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I just think it's nice that you don't have to
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buy anyone a gift. You just show up with food
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and there's fireworks.
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It's pretty chill. Yeah.
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Yeah, it's just more of a relaxing day.
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I thought you were going to say you like it
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so much because of the hot dog eating competition.
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Well, it's no secret that I love the hot dog
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eating competition. And I think it's actually going to be
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going on as we're recording this. Joey Chestnut, who.
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You know, back.
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He's back. It's a major deal for.
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People who don't follow this quite as closely as we do.
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There was some kind of contractual dispute and.
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He well, he had an endorsement with.
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Impossible Food Atised, which is not exactly Nathan's hot Dogs.
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Said no, we don't like that. So I think that
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Joey has a lot to prove this year. I think
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he's going to come back stronger than ever. Joey's only
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forty one years old. He really he looks a little
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little older, had.
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A lot of years left in his eating career.
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So Nathan's famous hot dog competitions started, I believe. The
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first time was in nineteen seventy two, of course at
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Coney Island, but a Polish immigrant named Nathan Handworker started
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the original hot dog stand in Coney Island in nineteen seventeen.
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Nineteen seventeen, okay, the.
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First official competition took place on Independence Day, like I said,
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in nineteen seventy two. Jason Scheckter was the inaugural champion
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at the time in a mixed gender field. I don't
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know how many he ate. I wish I knew that.
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But Joey, his record is seventy.
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Three, and that's in ten minutes, right.
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In ten minutes. Yes, and you can so insane that
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you can if you want, you can put condiments on
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your hot dog. That's not against the rules, but I
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imagine would want to take the time to do that.
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That's so weird too. They put like they eat the
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buns and the hot dogs separately, and they soak the
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buns in water to make it easier to go.
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That part of it makes it so gross to me.
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I wish they could.
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It's pretty gross.
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Yeah, the whole thing is really disgusting, but I love
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it for whatever reason. So what is your guest for today?
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How many hot dogs do you think?
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I'm sorry, what did you say? The record was seventy
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seventy three. I think I think he's going to get
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a new record. I'm going to say seventy five.
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I'm going to go with eighty one each. I know,
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seems high. So wow, we'll see who is the winner here.
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All right, We'll see.
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I don't know if it's like this everywhere. I'm pretty
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sure it's not, But in Michigan, fireworks are pretty legal.
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Like in late May or early June, there's ten surrected everywhere,
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and you can buy a bunch of fireworks. Yeah, I
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am pro firework, but I am anti buying fireworks and
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letting them off yourself. I'm always really not very much
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fun when I'm like, nope, no one can buy fireworks.
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I don't want to see them set off. You know,
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you're a professional.
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Well, where we live now, it's not quite as bad,
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but the subdivision we used to live in, like it
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was like a war zone.
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Yeah, people were pretty bad here too. You're not supposed to,
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but people still do.
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People would just like our whole our whole neighborhood was
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like people just shooting off fireworks.
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Non.
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I do think it's super dangerous and I know I'm
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no fun and just be safe.
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I mean it is. It's very like a lot of
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people get hurt with fireworks, so it's definitely important to
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maintain safety.
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I did make you a snack, and it's a fourth
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of July snack. It's kind of a fail. I have
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a I kind of made it up on my own.
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We didn't really make it up, but I was like,
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I'm gonna take a Golden Gram cereal and I'm going
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to make a small tree. So I used a couple
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of sticks of butter and a bag of marshmallows, and
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then I put too much stuff in it, as I
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tend to do. Can you see, like the I put
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patriotic eminem's in it, and I put too many m
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and ms, so they's.
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It's a lot of stuff in it.
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And then I used those chocolate chunks and they didn't all.
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I think I needed more marshmallow.
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Golden Gram cereals used to be when I was growing up.
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That was one of my favorites. I loved Golden Grams.
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You know, I don't think I think I've only had
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it in making recipes like this, but yeah, it's really yummy.
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So if you want to try it real quick.
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Yeah, of course.
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So that was like breakfast because it's made with breakfast cereal.
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What did you need to do? Like it?
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It was not a fail in my book. It was
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really good.
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I mean I should use the full bag of marshmallows.
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I didn't look the back like it looked a little
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bit of a mess, but the taste of it was excellent.
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Well good, I'm glad you liked it. On the night
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of August twenty second, nineteen twenty two, that's our wedding anniversary,
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and that's the year that we got married.
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Right somewhere around there.
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The wealthy neighborhood of North Andrews Boulevard and Los Angeles
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was jolted awake by the sound of gunfire three shots
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just after midnight, coming from the grand home of Fred
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and Walburga or Dolly Oosterike Walburga.
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That is quite a name.
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Yeah, well that's why she went by, Dolly. Police arrived
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at the mansion to a scene straight out of a
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Who Done It. Fred Oasterike was found lying dead on
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the living room floor, splayed across an oriental rug, like
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a man who'd been trying to protect his home and wife. Upstairs,
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officers heard frantic banging and cries for help. They followed
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the noise to find Dolly locked in her bedroom closet,
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disheveled and distressed. The key to the closet was sitting
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innocently on a nearby table. Dolly was shaken tearful as
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she told police the house had been robbed. The thief
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locked her in the closet before she could get a
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good look at him. It certainly looked the part some
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drawers had been rummaged through. Fred's expensive watch was missing,
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along with some cash. The police bought it a robbery
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gone wrong. They thought something didn't sit right for starters,
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who locks the lady of the house in a closet
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and neatly leaves the key behind? And more importantly, why
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didn't anything else seem to be missing? Dolly certainly was
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hiding something or someone. While Burga corcial Osterich's early years
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are surrounded in mystery. We can't say for sure where
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or when she was born. Dolly Is she preferred to
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be called, may have been born in the US or Germany,
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but we do know that she was born in eighteen
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eighty to German immigrant parents, and that she grew up
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in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, in a neighborhood among other German immigrants.
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From a young age. People were drawn to charismatic Dolly.
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She was bright, outgoing and pretty. While researching this case,
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I tried my best to get it right, but because
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the story is so old, I read a lot of
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thank you to newspapers dot com. It's really fun to
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go back and look at articles from you know, nineteen
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hundred or whatever. But some of the information conflicted. And
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I read a novella about the story, and there's just
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a lot of conflicting information.
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Yeah, that happens a lot with those older cases.
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Yeah, but I think I have the nuts and bolts right.
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Dolly's family was struggling to make ends meet, so at
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the tender age of twelve, Dolly was forced to quit
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school and get a job. She found work at a
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textile mill owned by the Oasterich family. Read Oasterike born
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in Chicago in eighteen seventy seven, was the heir to
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the family's fortune. He met Dolly at the mill and
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was instantly intrigued by the precocious young girl. Can you
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get your Canada control over there?
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He's really into this story.
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The Oasterikes, who had also migrated from Germany, owned several businesses.
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Despite her young age, she and Fred began dating.
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How old were they when they started dating.
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I'm not exactly sure how old they were when they
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started dating. She was twelve when she started working at
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the factory, so in my mind, I'm hoping that they
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didn't date until she was older. Yeah, when Dolly turned seventeen,
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she and Fred married. Dolly was happy to leave her
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troubled family behind for the wealth, stability, and comfort Fred
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offered her. They were very happy together in the beginning.
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Dolly and Fred were a good team. She helped him
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grow the family businesses, often suggesting new business ventures like
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manufacturing aprons, which became the cornerstone of the business. Dolly
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was kind and gentle with the workers at the textile mill,
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contrasting Fred's rude and brusque manner. But with his financial
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success came more responsibility in longer hours. To cope with
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the stress of work, Fred turned to alcohol. Dolly grew
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lonely and often found herself eating dinner by herself at
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a big table while Fred worked through the night. Dolly
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became pregnant in the year nineteen hundred at age twenty,
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and gave birth to a son named Raymond, but he
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died when he was nine years old, adding to Dolly's
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misery and loneliness. While Fred died deeper into his work
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and the bottle That's said Yeah. Craving the attention of
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love she no longer received from her husband, Dolly began
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seeing other men and carried out multiple affairs. Fred didn't
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even seem to notice. And if he did, he didn't care.
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In nineteen thirteen, a seventeen year old orphaned boy named
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Otto sand Huber caught Dolly's eye one day when she
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was visiting the textile factory. Otto repaired sewing machines and
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did other odd jobs for Fred. Dolly called the factory,
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feigning problems with her own sewing machine, and asked to
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have Otto sent to her home. Dolly, then thirty three,
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answered the door wearing only a silk robe, garters and stockings.
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Otto was overwhelmed with desire for the older woman, and
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the two began a torrid affair. First they met in hotels,
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but as time passed without Fred detecting anything, she became
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more brazen and the affair continued. At the oaster Reich's home.
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Otto was at her call. When the neighbor questioned Dolly
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who this young man was that she constantly saw at
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her house. She told the nosy woman that it was
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her half brother, who was a vagabond and constantly bothered
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her for food and money. Dolly had underestimated how curious