Jan. 8, 2024

Kathleen and Michael Peterson - Part 1

Kathleen and Michael Peterson - Part 1
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In December of 2001, Kathleen Peterson’s body was discovered in a bloody scene at the foot of the stairs in the Durham, North Carolina, home where she and her husband Michael lived. While Michael claimed it must have been an accidental fall while he was outside, the police were immediately suspicious due to the amount of blood, and they homed in on Michael. Thanks to The Staircase documentary series on Netflix, this story has become one of the most talked about and baffling cases ever. In part one of this three-part episode, we talk about Michael's background, his first marriage, the death of Elizabeth Ratliff, and Kathleen's background.

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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina. And if there's one thing we've learned

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in over twenty years of marriage,
some days you'll feel like killing your husband,

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and some days you'll feel like killing
your wife. Welcome to love,

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Mary Kill, Hey Tina, Hey
Rich. How are you? I'm great?

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How are you? I'm doing good? Happy twenty twenty four, Happy

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twenty twenty four. Although you know
there is a statute of limitations on Happy

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New Year, Larry David says three
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don't subscribe to Larry David's policies.
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to our friends and listeners and our
cats. Fair enough, fair enough.

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door, slam that door open.
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the few things we disagree about on
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hear I didn't. I did not
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heavens, I like it. I
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I'm that little ditty there. This
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is. This is Hail to the
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fight song, which super they've been
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might might have been cheating a little
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they are going to be playing in
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don't like about sports. I mean, I like sports. I like sports

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a lot. I appreciate the effort
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sound like such a mom but that
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they've had literally had a perfect season, that you are going to be sad

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if they lose, and they are
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to be sad, but I would, yes, you are, I will

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be sad. In the moment,
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I will look back afterwards and I
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a good season. I was actually
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to play me some cool new theme
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to because I'm pretty sure no one
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people will love I love our theme
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it if people want, so we'll
see. Wow, okay, and then

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you would probably have to find something
else, and that would be the challenge.

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Well, how's your resolution going.
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I'm pretty sure it was to be
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you know, the last five whole
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how about you. I didn't really
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just going to stay remain awesome and
so far, so far, so well.

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I think I have in the last
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I feel like I have been healthier
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it wasn't like a resolution. It
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do X Y and Z and I've
been trying to Yeah, a great

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job. Well, I do have
a snack. I'm ravenous. I'm actually

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not. I'm excited to see because
we had talked about this last night and

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you were like, I don't know
what I have, but I know that

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you are very creative. Yeah,
go ahead. I knew you were going

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to do this. I should have
written it down on a piece of paper.

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Wow. I good thing. I'm
a good thing. I'm hungry.

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I have in front of me three
baby three very thin baby carrots, and

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three pieces of cucumber. I know
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bit of the New Year and everything. No, I have, I have

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actual snacks. I went to the
gas station this morning. I know you

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did because you brought me a there's
a nice big episoda in front of me.

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I brought you the child size child. Yeah. Yeah, So no,

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I have four snacks just in case. Well, I hope this will

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probably be a two parts, not
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okay? So I'm having a little
PTSD because when we recorded Scott Peterson,

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we really thought it was going to
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and we were in here for six
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day. It was great. I
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we're proud of the episode, but
it was crazy. Prepare yourself for

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another long day before. I don't
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safe just in case. I think
it'll be two parts, maybe three,

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but pick a number between one and
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two or four. Four. You
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J. Great. That was like
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a little it looks like a crustable
package on behind, all right, sweet

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baked peanut butter oat crust with this
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I have the crustal it's has a
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window. Why don't we take a
break and try it? All right?

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Sounds good? What do you think? Not much? What do you think

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it was? All right? I
think if you're on the go and you

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want a little healthy tree, I
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of like a more like a cookie
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How dare you call that a cookie? I mean, but it was

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kind of like a thick granola bar. Maybe maybe more like a granola bar.

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But yeah, if you're on the
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Okay, snack. I have bought
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muffin bites or something for the kids. But yeah, it's fine. Can

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you pick another door? I hope
we don't have to pick four doors.

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We'll see. Okay, Well,
today is going to be a continuation of

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the Peterson project. You're this great
idea you have. Oh my gosh,

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why you're blaming me for it?
I think it's it's not the worst idea

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ever. It's just odd that three
of the worst people that I've ever heard

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of I'll share the same last name. I have started the Drew Peterson and

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when we're done, we'll have to, you know, quantify who is who

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is the worst? Yeah, but
Drew is, in my opinion, Drew

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is probably the worst. Michael is
probably the least likable. Yeah, Scott.

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I mean Scott's really horrible. So
that tells you something about the other

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two. Yeah, for sure.
Well, I think with Michael we're going

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to talk about this, but I
think there's definitely more of a question of

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his guilt or not than there is
probably for the other two. Yeah,

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and we'll get it. We'll get
into all that. Obviously. I found

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a little mini bombshell last night after
you've gone to bed, and what do

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you mean because you've said something to
me, But I was like, just

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about the sleep, but I said, don't, I can't right now,

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Okay tell me. So it probably
won't be in today's episode, but there's

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a little something that I don't think
you know that is a little it shook

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me a little bit interesting. Well, I know most people, a lot

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of people have watched the Staircase documentary
series that was on Netflix, and there

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was a dramatized version that came out
in twenty twenty two that ruined Colin Firth.

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For me, I love Colin first, but I was like, by

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the end of the Staircase, you
hated Michael Peterson so much that you hate

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Killin Firth. I mean, we
didn't even finish the HBO series because it

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was so similar. It just seemed
like there was no need to watch it.

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And yeah, I really do have
a hard time with Michael Peterson.

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I've heard a lot of people call
him charming, and I'm like, yeah,

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I don't know in what world that's
charming. I don't I don't either.

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On its surface, I think the
case is pretty simple. Michael Peterson

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called nine one one at two forty
am on Sunday, December ninth of two

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thousand and one and frantically reported that
his wife had had an accident. She

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had fallen down the stairs. But
obviously the case is taken on a life

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of its own. It's so complicated. There's so much involved here, and

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so many strong opinions on both sides
of whether Michael is guilty or not.

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I think when we started this whole
Peterson project, we didn't we didn't realize

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how we were getting ourselves much information
there is. Sometimes I get frustrated with

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our podcast because there are people that
can devote, you know, a year

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to a project, and we can't
do that because we put an episode out

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every week. Yeah, we have
done our best on this one. I

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mean you, I was a little
worried about you this week. I really

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didn't see you much because you took
the lead on this one. I did

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a little bit of the of the
legwork, but did you worked really hard.

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It's been a stressful couple of weeks. But I think we're going to

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start by having you read a little
bit of an excerpt from Michael Peterson's book,

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Let Me Give You a little background. In twenty nineteen, Michael Peterson

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wrote two book books. One of
them is called Behind the Staircase and the

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other is called Beyond the Staircase.
We'll get into this later, but all

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the proceeds from these two books were
donated to charity. I didn't read the

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whole book. I read the sample
on Kindle. Here's a little excerpt from

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it. Wilbur and Portia are lethargic
English bulldogs raise their heavy heads to watch,

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but any effort to move was too
much, so they stayed with me,

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also too lethargic to move. It
was a beautiful, magical night,

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with a pool shimmering and stars glistening. I settled contentedly on the chase.

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I was so happy. My life's
so good. I loved my wife,

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I loved my children, I loved
my work. I had just heard that

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a book of mine had been optioned
for a movie. I loved my house,

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I loved my dogs. I wanted
this moment to last forever. That's

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beautiful. So if I had time, I would have read the whole thing.

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But the book was just an airing
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his action, like he talked about
a lot of people have questioned, well,

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why was he at the poll until
two thirty am? It was December,

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and you and I looked up the
weather and what was the weather that

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night? It was in at that
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like maybe fifty one to fifty four
degrees, So he was wearing shorts

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and a T shirt. And in
the book he talks about how it was

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an uncharacteristically warm December evening nearly sixty
degrees. So you can tell right there

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that the book write in history a
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I think that he wanted the public
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is just a man who's been through
a lot and he really really loved his

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wife. But it doesn't come off
as that. It comes off as him

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trying to rationalize his behavior, and
it's not the loving tribute to Kathleen that

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she definitely deserved. Yeah, Well, we will dig into Michael's background and

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his because I think like his personality
and just who he is, his character

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is really important to this story,
and I think a lot of we're probably

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going to spend more time on his
background. In some of the anecdotes from

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you know, his first marriage and
things like that. Then maybe some of

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the other podcasts have because I do
think it's it's not necessarily things that are

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admissible in a court of law,
but I think it does get to his

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just his personality, personality, like
he's kind of a strange guy and for

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sure maybe a narcissist, right,
well, probably a narsissy, not a

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psychologist, but yes, he definitely
has a lot of characteristics of a narcissist.

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And that said about Michael, We're
also going to talk about Kathleen's background

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because in so many cases, the
victim gets lost, and I think she's

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been lost a little bit, so
we're going to talk about her background too,

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for sure. So today I think
that's what we're planning on mostly is

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just giving you background before this,
before the crime. Yeah, we'll see

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how far we get. But let's
start with Michael's background. So Michael Iver

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Peterson ivor it's a weird, weird
middle is a nice name, yeah,

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I guess. He was born on
October twenty third, nineteen forty three.

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He was the first child of Eugene
and Eleanor Peterson. Just a month after

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his birth, his father was shipped
overseas to fight in World War Two.

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After his father's return, the family
added two more sons, Bill and John,

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or Jack as he was known,
and a daughter Anne. Eugene ended

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up making a career in the military, which meant that the family moved around

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a lot as Michael grew up.
The family lived at various times in Japan,

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Washington State, Georgia, Kansas,
California, Virginia, Pennsylvania, North

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Carolina, and Copenhagen, Denmark.
That's a lot of places. I know.

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That's really a lot of places.
I often wonder do you think that's

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good for a child to grow up
in all these different places or is it

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bad that they don't have like kind
of roots that they're settled in. I

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think a little bit of both probably
true. When I was researching at Kathleen's

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background, and she traveled around a
little bit too, we really haven't in

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her life, and our kids have
been in the same school district, and

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sometimes I wonder if that's it would
be better to move around and meet new

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friends and be a little more adventurous. Yeah, there's definitely something to that.

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Michael left his family, who were
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to attend college at Duke University in
Durham, North Carolina. While at Duke,

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he was incredibly active. When I'm
going to read you the list of

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things he got involved in, but
this just kind of blows my mind,

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like all the things that he did
during college. So he joined the Air

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Force ROTC. He joined a pre
law society called Bench and Bar. He

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was on the staff of the university
newspaper, and he was the editor during

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his senior year. He got involved
in the campus YMCA, student politics,

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the debate team, and the publication
board, which oversaw the newspaper, yearbook

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and campus magazine. He joined the
Sigma new fraternity and was president his senior

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year, along with sitting on the
inter Fraternity Council and the Council of Presidents,

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which consisted of leaders from various student
groups. So yeah, I'd say

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he was pretty busy during his college
years. He graduated in nineteen sixty five

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with a degree in political science.
While back at home during a break,

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he met Patricia or Patty Balkman,
who was home on a visit from the

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University of Texas in Austin, and
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They would end up getting married in
nineteen sixty six. I had seen her

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referred to as Patty Sue. I
hadn't seen that, but I like it

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Yatty Sue. Michael started law school
after he graduated, but he left before

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completing his first year, and then
he got a job in Washington, d

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c. As a systems science analyst
for a defense consultant, and that job

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sent him to Vietnam to conduct a
study. The war was going on,

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of course, and he saw a
lot of corruption and illegal dealings, like,

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for example, fudging of daily reports
of those killed in action. So

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I think it made him a little
bit cynical about the government and the war

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and things like that. The experience
also made him want to write the Great

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American novel about the Vietnam War,
much like Hemingway did with A Farewell to

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Arms with World War One. But
he decided that to write about it,

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he needed to really experience the war, not as a consultant but as a

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soldier, and so he enlisted in
the Marines in nineteen sixty eight and was

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deployed to Vietnam in nineteen sixty nine, which is pretty amazing. I mean,

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I don't think there were a lot
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in nineteen sixty eight sixty nine.
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he really wanted the experience. While
he was deployed, Patty moved in with

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Michael's family, who were living in
Copenhagen, Denmark at that point, and

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then she got a teaching position with
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base in West Germany. In Vietnam, Michael was in charge of about thirty

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men. Even though Peterson was against
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attitude and he would volunteer his squad
for extra patrols, which caused some resentment

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among his men, but over time
he won them over and he earned their

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trust and specked. His squad saw
combat and sustained some casualties. Peterson was

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awarded a Silver Star for gallantry in
battle, but despite his later claims,

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he was not injured in Vietnam and
he did not receive a Purple Star.

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Well, he was injured in Vietnam, but not in battle on Vietnam.

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He was actually injured while stationed in
Japan after leaving Vietnam, but it was

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in a car accident. Yeah,
he was driving a friend home after dinner

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when a truck slammed into the side
of his car. Peterson was trapped in

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the car for about thirty minutes while
his friend died in the passenger seat next

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to him, which is really it's
just horrible to think about. His leg

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was shattered and he walked with a
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honorable discharge and a permanent medical disability. Over the next few years, Mike

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and Patty lived in Germany, where
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moved back and forth a few times
between Germany and Durham, North Carolina.

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Clayton was born in Germany in December
of nineteen seventy four, and then Todd

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was born in March of nineteen seventy
six. While they were in Germany,

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Patty worked while Michael was basically a
house husband. He worked on his writing

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and he went to the gym every
day, but he didn't really do a

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lot of housework. The house was
usually a mess, and if Patty ever

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said anything to him about it,
he would blow up. Friends said they

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felt like Patty walked on eggshells around
her husband. Patty had a good friend

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named pat Finn, who was another
teacher for the Department of Defense. In

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May of nineteen eighty three, Patty
and Mike went to visit Pat and her

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husband in Berlin. While staying with
them, Michael stole Pat's debit card while

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Pat was in the shower, Michael
rummaged through her drawers to find her pin

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and then proceeded to withdraw the maximum
daily amount each of the next four days.

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Totally right, one thousand dollars.
That's not okay. No, no,

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that's not okay. And it took
pat months to realize what happened because

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she and her husband went back to
the States for a few months after their

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visit and she didn't find out about
the theft until she returned, and when

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she mapped back the dates of the
withdrawals, she realized it was right at

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the time when Michael and Patty came
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anytime that Michael and Patty visited things
would end up missing, generally smaller items

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without a lot of value. So
Pat called Michael and confronted him, and

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he confessed to stealing the thousand dollars
and promised to pay her back, although

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he only made two partial payments and
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It's horrible. I know. That's
why I think like some of these stories.

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I know they're a little bit anecdotal, maybe a little bit hearsay,

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Right, this is just Pap Finn
telling this story. But I do think

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it's kind of like relevant to Michael's
character and how old is he at this

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point. He's probably thirty ish.
I guess he would have been around forty

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at this time. So he was
an adult, should be a responsible adult,

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and he was. He had some
sort of disability. He was receiving

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them from the military each month.
Yeah, I don't know how much that

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was, but yeah, I think
he was receiving disability payments. Also,

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while in Germany, Michael and Patty
became good friends with George and Liz Ratliffe.

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Liz worked with Patty as a teacher
for the Department of Defense, and

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George was a captain in the Air
Force. Liz grew up in Rhode Island

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and fun fact, she used to
babysit for Peter and Bobby Fairley over there.

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It would go on to fame by
making movies like Dumb and Dumber and

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There's Something about Mary. Liz was
musically talented and she really liked to sing

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at coffeehouses both during and after college. Liz and George had two daughters,

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Margaret, who was born near the
end of nineteen eighty one, and then

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Martha just thirteen months later. In
early nineteen eighty three, Liz had a

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blood disorder called von Willebrand's disease,
where blood doesn't clop properly. It can

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cause complications during childbirth, but luckily
Liz's case was mild and didn't cause any

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issues during either Margaret's or Martha's birth. It's a less severe type of hemophelia.

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Correct. I believe that is correct. I'm not a doctor, but

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I believe you're right now, Okay, I googled it is yeah. In

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October of nineteen eighty three, George
died mysteriously while on a secret mission at

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an unknown location. His roommate during
the mission found him dead in his bunk.

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The autopsy didn't uncover any reason for
his death, and the toxicology report

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was clean. His cause of death
was listed as unknown, along with the

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location of his death, which was
classified. After his death, Liz went

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into a deep depression, making it
challenging for her to keep working while also

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raising two small children. Michael jumped
in to help her manage her household finances,

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including drafting a new will for her
that named he and Patty as guardians

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for Margaret and Martha in case anything
happened to Liz. Yeah, and it

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actually this came up in the trial
later that Liz's sister looked at the will

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and the handwriting was definitely not Liz's
handwriting, because Liz was left handed and

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wrote with a backwards slant, and
the writing was basically the opposite of the

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wheel. I had thought that that
Liz and what was her husband's name,

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George, that they had written the
will is misreported in some places, and

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as you probably already know, something
did happen to Liz. On Sunday,

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November twenty fourth of nineteen eighty five, Liz and her girls had dinner with

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Michael, Paddy, and their boys. After dinner, Michael walked Liz,

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Margaret, and Martha down the street
to their home. He helped Liz get

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the girls ready for bed, and
once they were asleep, Liz drove her

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car to a mechanic, with Michael
following her and then giving her a ride

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back home. Wait they left the
girls home alone. I think they were

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in bed, but yeah, I
think they did. I don't know how

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far it was to the mechanic,
but they probably were like, yeah,

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they're sleeping whatever, okay. He
then after they got back, he took

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Liz's trash out for pick up the
next morning before he headed back home to

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Patty and the boys. At some
point in the evening. And I've seen

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two different reports. I'm not sure
which one is accurate. Here one said

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ten pm and the other said twelve
fifty am. Liz's neighbor said that she

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heard a door slam and looked out
her window to see Michael leaving Liz's home

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in a hurry on Monday morning.
The next morning, the children's nanny,

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Barbara, showed up around seven to
fifteen am as usual, to find Liz

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at the bottom of the stairs dead. There have been some differing accounts of

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the scene, but the nanny and
a neighbor named Amy Beth, who came

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to the scene, both later testified
that there was a lot of blood on

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the walls and the floor. Amy
Beth, who was nearly six feet tall,

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later said that at the top of
the stairs the blood was higher on

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the wall than she could reach.
But again, I've heard different things about

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the scene of Elizabeth's death as well. I've heard that there wasn't that much

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blood, and I've heard other people
say there was a lot. So it's

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a little frustrating trying to get to
the truth of that one. It's just

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so wild that two women in Michael's
white life I've died at the bottom of

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a staircase. He gets zero points
for originality. What are the odds?

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Eh? So Barbara went and got
the Peterson's and soon German police and EMTs

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arrived. Michael told anyone who would
listen that Liz had a cerebral hemorrhage and

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fell down the stairs. Wait after
the autopsy or no before when people were

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at the scene. I've read that
Michael was basically telling people she had a

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cerebral hemorrhage. Hmm. Obviously he
would not know that. You wouldn't think

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he would be qualified. Liz's body
was taken to Frankfurt for an autopsy under

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US Army supervision. The base there
had four staff pathologists, but none of

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them was a forensic pathologist, and
none had any experience doing an autopsy where

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foul play was suspected. The final
report of the autopsy said that the cause

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of death was sarahbellar hemorrhage complicated by
von Willebrand's disease. Liz had complained of

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bad headaches in the days before her
death, so that concl usion might make

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sense. Additionally, Patty later said
that she saw the German medical examiner take

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a spinal tap and that the contents
did not look clear, which would also

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indicate a cerebral hemorrhage. Michael years
later said that she had a stroke.

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Okay, but that wasn't def I
think that could be consistent with a sarabellar

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hemorrhage, right, it sounds like
it. Yeah, I believe so.

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I think a sarabellar hemorrhage, as
according to Google, could be caused by

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a stroke, or it could be
caused by trauma. Yeah. Interesting,

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And you didn't mention this earlier.
But she was forty one and George was

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thirty three. Yes, and after
his I think that she thought that she

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wasn't going to marry and she really
loved him, and she was so happy

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to have these two children because she
was an older mom, especially at that

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time, and so after his death, she was devastated, and that's why

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she had to have a nanny because
she was having a hard time caring for

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the kids. And Michael did step
up, yeah, with the kids,

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and they were very close. Yeah, I think it was really hard for

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her. She was definitely in a
depression and I think just going to work

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every day was all she could really, you know, kind of handle in

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that state. So I think having
Barbara was really helpful for her, and

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I think, yeah, Michael also
helped. Barbara and others did not believe

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the conclusion. Barbara would tell everyone
that she knew that there was more to

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Liz's death. She later testified in
Michael's trial that Elizabeth always laid out breakfast

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settings for her daughters before she went
to bed at night, and no settings

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had been laid out when her body
was found on Monday morning, indicating that

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she probably died the night before.
Barbara also testified that Elizabeth was wearing snow

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boots when her body was found and
all the lights were on, again,

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suggesting that she died on Sunday night, not Monday morning. She was wearing

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snow boots. Yes, I think
if she was wearing snow boots, that

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definitely a point points the finger at
Michael a little bit more because she and

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Michael had just gotten back, you
know, Sunday night, from taking her

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car to the mechanic. So if
he did something to her, then it

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was right when they got back,
before she took off her boot, her

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boots. You probably don't know this, but were the stairs wooden stairs?

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I believe they were wooden stairs.
Yes, so if her snow boots were

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wet, she also could have slipped
on the stairs. True, and her

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the position of her body was just
crumpled at the bottom of the stairs.

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It wasn't necessarily like Kathleen's body was
how she was. Kathleen was sitting up.

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Yeah, I don't think so.
I think it was more like crumpled

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up a little bit. I saw
Patty, Michael's wife at the time she

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re enacted it on the Staircase documentary
where she kind of laid down on the

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stairs where in the position that she
had said that Liz was in, and

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it was kind of more like,
yeah, just sort of crumpled up at

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the bottom step. Very sad,
Yeah, for sure. Pat Finn,

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Patty's friend that Michael had stolen from, was also suspicious when she heard the

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news. She remembered that Michael would
constantly make make negative remarks about Liz,

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almost to the point where Pat felt
like he was obsessed with her. Somehow,

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She actually called the Criminal Investigation Division
of the Military Police and shared her

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suspicions that Michael was involved in Liz's
death, but they never followed up.

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What do you think the extent of
their relationship was? Were they having an

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affair which I know you don't know
the answer to. I definitely do not

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know the answer to. But more
than one person, So Pat Finn was

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one, and then Michael's sister Anne
came to visit them for an extended period

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while they were in Germany, and
both of them said that he was like

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obsessed, like he would talk about
Liz all the time, but it wasn't

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like he would talk about her in
a positive way. It was like negative

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like she's crazy, or she's dumb, or she doesn't know how to manage

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her household or things like that,
and so it's yeah, I don't know

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the nature of their relationship, but
there was definitely something. So it could

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00:27:48.799 --> 00:27:53.160
have been like a brother sister relationship, could have been yeah, or or

403
00:27:53.200 --> 00:27:56.880
they might have been having an affair. You know, we just don't know.

404
00:27:56.799 --> 00:28:02.599
Michael seems like a gossipy type of
her. He does. Many people

405
00:28:02.599 --> 00:28:07.160
will argue vociferously that Elizabeth's death was
an accident. It was ruled an accident

406
00:28:07.400 --> 00:28:11.759
at the time, and the autopsy
said it was an accident. I personally

407
00:28:11.759 --> 00:28:15.359
am suspicious of that conclusion, only
because of what happened afterwards. In the

408
00:28:15.480 --> 00:28:21.160
odds of two people close to you
dying from falling down the stairs is just

409
00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:25.839
so astronomical. You're not alone.
But at the same time, I do,

410
00:28:26.599 --> 00:28:27.640
I do look back and I think, well, what would what would

411
00:28:27.640 --> 00:28:32.880
have been his motive of killing Elizabeth. It wasn't money, because he did

412
00:28:32.880 --> 00:28:34.960
get He did get money from her
estate to help with the children, but

413
00:28:36.440 --> 00:28:38.559
it wasn't a huge amount. I
think it was valid. Then he had

414
00:28:38.640 --> 00:28:41.799
two extra children to take care of, yeah, exactly, so it wasn't

415
00:28:41.839 --> 00:28:47.200
definitely wasn't money. If he did
do it. I always thought, if

416
00:28:47.200 --> 00:28:48.920
he did do it, it was
a crime of passion. It was something

417
00:28:48.960 --> 00:28:52.720
a spur of the moment that you
know, maybe they had been up in

418
00:28:52.799 --> 00:28:56.839
her bedroom and you know, they
had an argument and he pushed her down

419
00:28:56.839 --> 00:29:02.160
the stairs. Yeah, could be
unfortunately, no with that, why don't

420
00:29:02.160 --> 00:29:12.440
we take a quick break. According
to the terms of Elizabeth's will, Michael

421
00:29:12.480 --> 00:29:17.279
and Patty now became the legal guardians
of Margaret, who was around four years

422
00:29:17.279 --> 00:29:19.759
old, and Martha, who was
not quite two. I thought they were

423
00:29:19.799 --> 00:29:23.279
younger, like one of them wasn't
even a year old. Yeah, I

424
00:29:23.279 --> 00:29:27.599
have seen different stories that said they
were younger, and I actually went back

425
00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:33.839
and checked the dates to verify,
and I believe it is correct that Margaret

426
00:29:33.880 --> 00:29:37.640
was almost four and Martha was almost
three. Still very or almost two,

427
00:29:37.640 --> 00:29:41.839
I'm sorry, almost two, so
yeah, still very young. Like a

428
00:29:41.880 --> 00:29:45.240
lot of cases that get this famous
and this big, I think there's a

429
00:29:45.240 --> 00:29:48.759
lot of reporting that or facts that
get stated, maybe incorrectly, and then

430
00:29:48.759 --> 00:29:51.880
they get repeated over and over and
over again, and they just, you

431
00:29:51.920 --> 00:29:56.480
know, almost become like fact,
even when they're wrong. With Michael and

432
00:29:56.519 --> 00:30:00.599
Patty taking custody of the girls,
the girls, nanny Barbara stay involved in

433
00:30:00.640 --> 00:30:03.359
their lives for a period of time
after that, and she got to know

434
00:30:03.440 --> 00:30:07.039
Michael and Patty, who she hadn't
known very well before. She said that

435
00:30:07.079 --> 00:30:11.160
Michael could be aggressive, mean,
and impatient, and that he displayed clear

436
00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:15.720
favoritism toward Margaret. She reported that
at least twice she saw Martha with bruises

437
00:30:15.880 --> 00:30:21.680
and once confronted Michael about it.
Michael told Barbara that Martha had been a

438
00:30:21.799 --> 00:30:25.480
bad, bad girl and she needed
to learn manners. He said that he

439
00:30:25.519 --> 00:30:29.200
had rubbed Martha's nose in the carpet
like a dog when she had an accident.

440
00:30:29.599 --> 00:30:33.400
Oh God, again, hearsay.
I know it's one person saying this,

441
00:30:33.480 --> 00:30:37.240
but it's just did she make up
exactly? And she really cared for

442
00:30:37.240 --> 00:30:41.279
the girls, I think as well. In the summer of nineteen eighty six,

443
00:30:41.400 --> 00:30:45.759
Michael left Martha and Rhode Island with
her aunt and uncle, Margaret and

444
00:30:45.839 --> 00:30:48.720
Jim Blair, and then he traveled
to Texas to leave Margaret with her dad's

445
00:30:48.759 --> 00:30:53.200
family while he and Patty got settled
in Durham, North Carolina. These poor

446
00:30:53.240 --> 00:30:57.000
little girls, yeah, I don't
think we talk about that, and it's

447
00:30:57.039 --> 00:31:00.799
been talked about enough, like the
trauma that they had on their lives.

448
00:31:00.880 --> 00:31:04.400
Yeah, and there's more to come
as well. So Michael asked the Blairs

449
00:31:04.440 --> 00:31:08.440
at that point whether they would take
Martha permanently. They said they were happy

450
00:31:08.480 --> 00:31:11.559
to, but they asked what about
Margaret. The two girls had been through

451
00:31:11.599 --> 00:31:15.480
so much and they know they only
had each other in terms of close family.

452
00:31:17.039 --> 00:31:18.880
But Michael would not agree to give
both girls up to the Blairs,

453
00:31:18.920 --> 00:31:23.200
and so they declined his offer to
take Martha because they thought the girls should

454
00:31:23.200 --> 00:31:29.640
stay together. Absolutely of course,
right then, in nineteen eighty eight,

455
00:31:29.839 --> 00:31:33.640
Patty told Michael that a wealthy older
couple in Germany wanted to adopt the girls.

456
00:31:34.119 --> 00:31:37.440
At first, Michael refused to let
them go, but Patty convinced him.

457
00:31:38.200 --> 00:31:41.640
They put the girls, who were
seven and five at the time,

458
00:31:41.759 --> 00:31:45.279
on a plane to Germany by themselves
to be picked up by the couple,

459
00:31:45.920 --> 00:31:51.960
which again just horrible. Yeah,
and the couple that adopted them or were

460
00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:56.160
going to adopt them didn't speak much
English, which made things difficult. And

461
00:31:56.279 --> 00:31:59.640
after only a week they changed their
mind about adopting the girls, and the

462
00:31:59.640 --> 00:32:05.400
girls flew back to North Carolina.
So agreed they were. They went through

463
00:32:05.440 --> 00:32:07.640
a lot, like they just went
through a lot with everything. It's such

464
00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:15.279
an impressionable age when you kids need
a stable home, and yeah, they

465
00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:20.160
did not have it. Someone to
bond too. And it sounds like Patty

466
00:32:20.279 --> 00:32:22.720
wasn't the warm and fuzzy mom that
they probably needed at that time. I

467
00:32:22.759 --> 00:32:25.359
don't think so, and I don't
think she was ever really on board with

468
00:32:28.480 --> 00:32:31.119
taking custody of the kids. I
think that was more Michael's thing. In

469
00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:36.279
nineteen ninety, Margaret and Martha spent
the summer with their aunt and uncle in

470
00:32:36.319 --> 00:32:39.920
Rhode Island. Again. After returning, Margaret tattled on Martha for not saying

471
00:32:39.960 --> 00:32:44.519
her good night prayers, and Michael
fired off an angry letter to their aunt.

472
00:32:44.839 --> 00:32:46.799
He said, quote, the girls
had a terrific time with you,

473
00:32:46.880 --> 00:32:51.000
and I thank you very much.
My only concern is with the heavy dose

474
00:32:51.039 --> 00:32:54.839
of religion that they, Margaret in
particular, brought back. It borders slightly

475
00:32:54.880 --> 00:33:00.319
on fundamentalist fanaticism that Liz was utterly
opposed to. And apparently their aunt had

476
00:33:00.400 --> 00:33:04.960
again expressed a desire to adopt the
two girls, because in his letter he

477
00:33:05.039 --> 00:33:08.279
also said quote, they absolutely need
me. Believe me, if I thought

478
00:33:08.279 --> 00:33:12.000
that it would be better for Martha
and Margaret to live with you, or

479
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:15.440
that you could better raise them,
than I would step aside. But deep

480
00:33:15.440 --> 00:33:17.200
in my heart, I believe that
I am the best person to mold and

481
00:33:17.279 --> 00:33:24.519
guide them and love them too.
Yikes. Around that time, Michael and

482
00:33:24.559 --> 00:33:30.000
Patty moved the family back to Germany, but soon after Michael returned to Durham

483
00:33:30.039 --> 00:33:34.519
with Martha and Margaret, leaving the
boys with their mother in Germany. At

484
00:33:34.519 --> 00:33:37.359
the end of the nineteen ninety one
school year, Patty came back to the

485
00:33:37.400 --> 00:33:40.480
States with Clayton and Todd, and
she drove Margaret and Martha up to Rhode

486
00:33:40.480 --> 00:33:45.160
Island again for the summer. When
she dropped them off at their aunt Margaret's

487
00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:49.720
house, Patty told her that she
and Michael were separating, and again offered

488
00:33:49.720 --> 00:33:52.440
for the Blairs to permanently adopt the
girls in order to provide them with a

489
00:33:52.440 --> 00:33:58.640
more stable home environment. Again,
the Blairs were delighted, but Michael called

490
00:33:58.640 --> 00:34:01.240
them angrily in augustying that he had
no idea that Patty told them that they

491
00:34:01.240 --> 00:34:05.799
could adopt the girls. He said
it was his decision and he was coming

492
00:34:05.880 --> 00:34:08.800
to Rhode Island and would talk to
the girls and let them decide. By

493
00:34:08.800 --> 00:34:13.320
this point he was living with Kathleen
and her daughter Caitlin, who will talk

494
00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:17.159
about in a minute. But he
drove to Rhode Island with Kathleen and Caitlyn

495
00:34:17.239 --> 00:34:21.840
and sat down with Margaret and Martha, saying, I leave this choice up

496
00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:23.960
to you. But I'm telling you
that your mother never, never wanted you

497
00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:28.519
to live with your aunt Margaret never. But I'm leaving the decision to you.

498
00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:30.559
Wait, how old are they?
They were nine and eight at this

499
00:34:30.840 --> 00:34:36.239
time, and they said they wanted
to live in Durham with Michael, Kathleen,

500
00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:40.559
and Caitlyn, who they were actually
friends with Caitlin as well. Before

501
00:34:40.599 --> 00:34:45.280
we talk about Kathleen, I wanted
to spend just a minute talking about Michael's

502
00:34:45.320 --> 00:34:49.280
writing career. I think a lot
of people assume that he either wasn't a

503
00:34:49.360 --> 00:34:52.320
very good writer or wasn't a very
successful writer. But neither of those things

504
00:34:52.480 --> 00:34:58.199
is actually true. He was quite
successful as an author, both financially and

505
00:34:58.239 --> 00:35:02.079
critically. His His first book,
The Immortal Dragon, was published in July

506
00:35:02.199 --> 00:35:07.199
of nineteen eighty three. It was
a five hundred and twenty seven page novel

507
00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:12.480
set in nineteenth century France and Vietnam. Have you read it? I was

508
00:35:12.519 --> 00:35:15.960
going to get a sample of it, but I didn't. I ran out

509
00:35:15.000 --> 00:35:20.400
of time. It was described as
a saga of love, lust, courage,

510
00:35:20.400 --> 00:35:24.000
and treachery. One review called it
quote beautifully crafted work, rich with

511
00:35:24.159 --> 00:35:30.079
history and characters you care for unquote
His second book, A Time of War,

512
00:35:30.320 --> 00:35:34.639
was released in nineteen ninety. For
it, he received in advance of

513
00:35:34.719 --> 00:35:38.119
six hundred thousand dollars and NBC acquired
an option on the book, although I

514
00:35:38.119 --> 00:35:42.760
don't believe they ever made anything out
of it. This was his epic,

515
00:35:42.880 --> 00:35:45.960
five hundred and eighty page Vietnam war
novel, and it made it onto the

516
00:35:46.000 --> 00:35:51.880
New York Times bestseller list. One
review said, quote A Time of War

517
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:55.280
ranks with the best of novels dealing
with the war in Vietnam. I did

518
00:35:55.320 --> 00:36:00.880
read a portion of Michael's twenty nineteen
book Behind the Staircase, and I would

519
00:36:00.880 --> 00:36:06.360
call well written. Yeah, he
was trying to rationalize his behavior after the

520
00:36:06.400 --> 00:36:08.559
incidents with Kathleen. But I mean, yeah, he was a good writer,

521
00:36:08.639 --> 00:36:10.519
though he isn't Okay, Yeah,
he's a pretty good writer. I'd

522
00:36:10.559 --> 00:36:15.000
say. He got an advance of
four hundred and fifty thousand dollars for his

523
00:36:15.079 --> 00:36:17.519
third book, which would end up
being called A Bitter Piece, published in

524
00:36:17.599 --> 00:36:22.239
nineteen ninety six. Again it was
about Vietnam, and again it was fairly

525
00:36:22.280 --> 00:36:24.840
well reviewed. He also a lot
of money, and that was in White

526
00:36:24.880 --> 00:36:30.440
Year, Yeah, in nineteen ninety
six, So yeah, significantly more now,

527
00:36:30.679 --> 00:36:32.199
Yeah, for sure. And the
way an advance works, you get

528
00:36:32.239 --> 00:36:37.639
an advance, but then if you're
the number of copies sold exceeds a certain

529
00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:42.159
amount, then you get you know, kickbacks from that too. Yeah.

530
00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:44.920
And I never read how much money
he made in total the books. I

531
00:36:45.000 --> 00:36:46.559
just read about the advances, so
I don't know if he also got more

532
00:36:47.119 --> 00:36:52.440
money after that. He also collaborated
on a book published in nineteen ninety eight

533
00:36:52.559 --> 00:36:55.840
called Charlie two Shoes and the Marines
of Love Company. This was a true

534
00:36:55.880 --> 00:37:01.440
story about a Chinese man nicknamed Charlie
Twoshoes by some US Marines who had befriended

535
00:37:01.519 --> 00:37:07.119
him in nineteen forty five. When
the Communists took over in nineteen forty nine

536
00:37:07.119 --> 00:37:10.400
and the Marines pulled out, Charlie
spent seventeen of the next thirty five years

537
00:37:10.400 --> 00:37:15.039
as a political prisoner because of his
close relationship with the Marines, and when

538
00:37:15.039 --> 00:37:19.519
the soldiers learned of his plight,
they lobbied the US Congress to bring him

539
00:37:19.519 --> 00:37:22.280
to the US. Well, I'm
going to tell you a little bit about

540
00:37:22.280 --> 00:37:27.880
eighteen ten Cedar Street, the home
that Peterson family lived in. It was

541
00:37:27.960 --> 00:37:31.760
built in nineteen forty and Michael purchased
the sixth bath five bedroom home in nineteen

542
00:37:31.840 --> 00:37:37.760
ninety three for six hundred thousand dollars
after he received one of those large book

543
00:37:37.800 --> 00:37:43.079
advances. It is located within the
historic Forest Hills neighborhood in Durham, North

544
00:37:43.079 --> 00:37:45.400
Carolina, and at the time,
I don't know if this still stands,

545
00:37:45.519 --> 00:37:51.679
it was the largest residential property in
all of Durham, which tells you something

546
00:37:51.760 --> 00:37:54.760
about again about Michael's personality. I
think he just wanted the best in the

547
00:37:54.800 --> 00:38:01.360
biggest house. He was more about
his reputation and his appearance and maybe his

548
00:38:01.440 --> 00:38:07.920
substance sometimes. The house is about
ten thousand square feet, which is pretty

549
00:38:07.920 --> 00:38:14.000
sizeable, pretty big house. There
are fourteen rooms, five bedrooms and six

550
00:38:14.039 --> 00:38:19.800
bathrooms, four chimneys, two staircases, a grand staircase in the front of

551
00:38:19.840 --> 00:38:23.280
the house, and an old dark
staircase in the rear of the house that

552
00:38:23.519 --> 00:38:29.639
was probably used for servants because it's
off the kitchen. I was looking at

553
00:38:29.639 --> 00:38:34.119
some pictures on Zilla and the grand
staircases. Really it's amazing and it's really

554
00:38:34.199 --> 00:38:38.400
beautiful. It's very Yeah, it's
very grand, but the house has been

555
00:38:39.000 --> 00:38:43.039
The pictures that you saw are different
than what it looked like that. I'm

556
00:38:43.039 --> 00:38:47.000
not sure. I know the house
has been redone. There's an outdoor pool,

557
00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:52.920
and it sits on three and a
half wooded acres. Among the fourteen

558
00:38:52.000 --> 00:38:57.320
rooms are a library, a study, a game room, an exercise room.

559
00:38:58.280 --> 00:39:00.719
Kathleen will talk about in a minute. She filled the home with thousands

560
00:39:00.760 --> 00:39:06.840
of dollars of antiques, art and
collectibles. Petersons really loved their home and

561
00:39:06.840 --> 00:39:10.000
they were really proud of it.
After his conviction, the house was listed

562
00:39:10.039 --> 00:39:15.440
at one point one seventy five million
dollars and a state sale was held at

563
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:19.480
the house and throngs of people paid
twenty dollars to get a peek at the

564
00:39:19.480 --> 00:39:22.800
Peterson home and bid on their belongings, which is always such a weird Like

565
00:39:22.840 --> 00:39:27.639
it happened more recently with the Murdas. It just it turned into more like

566
00:39:27.639 --> 00:39:30.119
a tourist attraction. Then well,
I mean the sale was like it was

567
00:39:30.119 --> 00:39:35.199
a three day sale, but you
know how people like camped out and I

568
00:39:35.480 --> 00:39:38.920
believe a few thousand people went through
the house that day, which I definitely

569
00:39:38.920 --> 00:39:42.320
would have paid twenty oh yeah,
totally to see the house. I can

570
00:39:42.360 --> 00:39:45.639
only imagine like people were like grouped
grouped at the staircase, you know,

571
00:39:45.199 --> 00:39:51.719
trying to solve the crime. The
proceeds of this state sale were split among

572
00:39:51.719 --> 00:39:54.920
the five children. The price on
the house was slashed several times, eventually

573
00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:59.559
selling in the summer of two thousand
and four for six hundred and forty thousand

574
00:39:59.559 --> 00:40:05.000
dollars. The buyer renovated the home
and relisted it for one point nine million

575
00:40:05.039 --> 00:40:07.960
dollars in twenty twenty. According to
zillo dot Com, it is valued at

576
00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:14.360
more than three million dollars today.
Renowned scholar, filmmaker, professor, and

577
00:40:14.480 --> 00:40:19.239
host of the PBS series Finding Your
Roots, Henry Lewis Gates Junior owned the

578
00:40:19.280 --> 00:40:22.559
home while he was teaching at Duke
University before he moved on to Harvard and

579
00:40:22.679 --> 00:40:28.599
the nineteen ninety film Handmaid's Tale was
partially filmed at the house on Cedar Street,

580
00:40:28.599 --> 00:40:31.639
which is kind of cool that it
was used as the commander's house.

581
00:40:32.199 --> 00:40:37.960
The exterior of the house is also
used, as is the staircase in that

582
00:40:37.079 --> 00:40:42.199
film, which makes me want to
go watch the film. But when we

583
00:40:42.280 --> 00:40:45.840
went to Toronto, we went to
Cassa Loma, and there are so many

584
00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:52.400
a lot of movies. It's so
funny because It made me realize you can

585
00:40:52.480 --> 00:40:55.519
frame any room and make it look
like part of a palace or whatever.

586
00:40:55.679 --> 00:41:00.280
Yeah, all right, Should we
talk about Kathleen now, Yes, Like

587
00:41:00.320 --> 00:41:06.599
we said, Kathleen and her history
gets lost in this story sometimes because she

588
00:41:06.679 --> 00:41:13.000
was a remarkable woman. John Franklin
Hunt owned a successful construction company in New

589
00:41:13.079 --> 00:41:15.360
York when he met and fell in
love with the secretary more than twenty years

590
00:41:15.400 --> 00:41:21.599
his junior, Veronica Anne Hogan.
The couple married in nineteen forty six and

591
00:41:21.800 --> 00:41:24.039
moved to Saint Louis, where they
had their first child, Stephen, in

592
00:41:24.119 --> 00:41:30.480
nineteen fifty one. The family moved
to Greensboro, North Carolina, before Kathleen

593
00:41:30.119 --> 00:41:36.400
Kathy Morris Hunt was born in February
of nineteen fifty three. They moved again

594
00:41:36.599 --> 00:41:42.800
in nineteen fifty five to Lancaster,
Pennsylvania, where Candace and Laurie were born.

595
00:41:43.599 --> 00:41:46.159
John was sixty three years old by
the time his last daughter was born.

596
00:41:46.320 --> 00:41:52.840
Wow. Yeah. John and Veronica
were proponents of education and being well

597
00:41:52.880 --> 00:41:57.599
read. Their home was filled with
stacks of books. Kathy showed promise from

598
00:41:57.599 --> 00:42:01.400
an early age. She was voted
Girl of the Year in seventh grade and

599
00:42:01.480 --> 00:42:07.760
won the title of Ancaster lasso I
think was a pretty big honor. In

600
00:42:07.880 --> 00:42:12.639
high school, she was president of
the debate club, and remember Michael was

601
00:42:12.639 --> 00:42:16.880
in the debate. She played on
the tennis team and was editor of the

602
00:42:16.880 --> 00:42:20.760
school magazine, so you can see. And Michael was also editor of a

603
00:42:20.760 --> 00:42:22.880
magazine of his I think it was
his college magazine, but lat in common.

604
00:42:24.119 --> 00:42:29.559
She graduated first in her high school
class. In nineteen seventy one,

605
00:42:29.679 --> 00:42:34.800
Kathy was the first woman ever admitted
to the Duke University's College of Engineering.

606
00:42:35.000 --> 00:42:38.440
That's amazing, It's very cool.
She thrived at Duke, where she dropped

607
00:42:38.679 --> 00:42:45.440
the diminutive form of her name and
became Kathleen. She met her first husband,

608
00:42:45.480 --> 00:42:49.480
Fred Atwater in a physics class.
He was a grad student and teaching

609
00:42:49.480 --> 00:42:53.440
assistant. They married after Kathleen graduated
from Duke in nineteen seventy five with a

610
00:42:53.480 --> 00:42:58.960
Bachelor of Science degree in civil engineering. She and Fred married that year in

611
00:42:59.000 --> 00:43:04.079
August in a private ceremony with only
a few friends present. After their marriage,

612
00:43:04.119 --> 00:43:07.320
Fred continued his studies at Duke,
working towards his doctorate in physics,

613
00:43:07.360 --> 00:43:13.719
while Kathleen worked on a master's degree
in civil engineering. Fred finished his doctorate

614
00:43:13.800 --> 00:43:17.440
and accepted a job at that John
Hopkins Applied Physics Lab, which required the

615
00:43:17.440 --> 00:43:22.639
couple to move to Columbia, Maryland. Kathleen finished her master's thesis and began

616
00:43:22.719 --> 00:43:29.119
work at Baltimore Air Quoyle Pritchard,
working on the construction and repair of cooling

617
00:43:29.159 --> 00:43:32.679
towers and power plants. In nineteen
eighty one, after years of trying to

618
00:43:32.719 --> 00:43:37.719
conceive, Kathleen became pregnant. Kathleen's
career was thriving, but she was most

619
00:43:37.800 --> 00:43:43.360
proud of becoming a mother to Caitlin
Veronica Atwater, who was born on April

620
00:43:43.400 --> 00:43:47.400
twenty seventh, nineteen eighty two.
Kathleen doted on Caitlin like her mother had

621
00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:52.360
on her. She focused on providing
her with a good education and an enriched

622
00:43:52.480 --> 00:43:57.840
childhood filled with travel, art and
culture. In nineteen eighty six, the

623
00:43:57.840 --> 00:44:00.599
Atwaters decided to move back to Durham, North Carolina, when Fred received a

624
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:06.480
job offer from GTE. They loved
their college years there and were excited to

625
00:44:06.519 --> 00:44:12.400
move back. They settled in the
upscale historic Forest Hills neighborhood. Does that

626
00:44:12.480 --> 00:44:15.480
sound familiar? It sure does.
Kathleen took a break from her career to

627
00:44:15.480 --> 00:44:21.280
get settled in their new home and
enjoy some time with her daughter. Kathleen's

628
00:44:21.280 --> 00:44:23.679
mother, Veronica, now a widow, loved to spend time with her daughter

629
00:44:23.719 --> 00:44:30.679
and granddaughter. In June nineteen eighty
seven, Kathleen began working at Northern Telecom,

630
00:44:30.159 --> 00:44:36.079
which later became Nortel, where she
worked until her death. She was

631
00:44:36.199 --> 00:44:40.519
rapidly promoted due to her ambition,
intelligence, and competence. Kathleen and Fred's

632
00:44:40.519 --> 00:44:45.760
marriage crumbled when he began a relationship
with a younger female colleague. It began

633
00:44:45.960 --> 00:44:51.760
as a mentorship but quickly evolved into
a romantic relationship, ending his marriage to

634
00:44:51.840 --> 00:44:57.360
Kathleen. Despite her best efforts to
keep her family together. After the divorce,

635
00:44:57.519 --> 00:45:00.599
Fred continued to play an important role
in Caitlyn's life. Both her parents

636
00:45:00.599 --> 00:45:05.559
were very devoted to her. Caitlyn
was a bright, sensitive, and inquisitive

637
00:45:05.639 --> 00:45:08.400
child, but she had a hard
time making friends. Kathleen sought out play

638
00:45:08.440 --> 00:45:13.440
dates for her in the Forest Hills
neighborhood where they lived. Margaret and Martha

639
00:45:13.440 --> 00:45:17.079
Peterson were similar in age to Caitlin, and they soon became really good friends,

640
00:45:17.079 --> 00:45:22.119
playing Barbie and having adventures together.
Michael Peterson and his wife Patty were

641
00:45:22.119 --> 00:45:27.400
going through a difficult time after she
had returned to Germany to teach, and

642
00:45:28.280 --> 00:45:32.960
she had brought Clayton and Todd with
her. Michael and Kathleen became close friends,

643
00:45:34.000 --> 00:45:38.159
confiding in each other about their marital
woes and eventually began dating. Michael

644
00:45:38.159 --> 00:45:44.079
and Patty divorced in nineteen eighty seven, and Kathleen and Caitlyn moved into the

645
00:45:44.119 --> 00:45:50.199
mansion in eighteen ten Cedars Street in
nineteen eighty nine, but they did not

646
00:45:50.320 --> 00:45:55.199
marry until nineteen ninety seven. Kathleen
had always wanted more children and was overjoyed

647
00:45:55.719 --> 00:46:00.519
to gain two more daughters and Martha
and Margaret. Eventually, Clayton and Todd

648
00:46:00.559 --> 00:46:04.840
moved into the house on Cedar Street
too, but by that time I think

649
00:46:04.840 --> 00:46:07.400
they were kind of college aged,
is that correct? I think that is

650
00:46:07.440 --> 00:46:12.800
true. They were a happy family, and Kathleen embraced them all and treated

651
00:46:12.840 --> 00:46:15.880
them like her own. They all
loved her very much, and I think

652
00:46:15.880 --> 00:46:22.039
that's apparent if you've watched The Staircase. Kathleen loved hosting parties, receptions and

653
00:46:22.119 --> 00:46:25.559
fundraising galas supporting the arts. She
and Michael were at the center of the

654
00:46:25.639 --> 00:46:30.840
Durham social scene and never missed a
Black tieh event. She was quote the

655
00:46:31.079 --> 00:46:37.079
Martha Stewart of Durham as the society
columnist for the local newspaper once said she

656
00:46:37.199 --> 00:46:43.400
was active on the Arts Council and
the Historic Preservation Society. She was known

657
00:46:43.440 --> 00:46:49.000
as the queen of clean and organization
and could make a gourmet meal for fifty

658
00:46:49.039 --> 00:46:52.480
with little to no notice. I've
read that she would like they would have

659
00:46:52.519 --> 00:46:57.599
people over to the house and she
would always cook herself rather than Yeah,

660
00:46:57.639 --> 00:47:02.440
she did it herself. And by
all accounts, Michael and Kathleen adored each

661
00:47:02.480 --> 00:47:07.440
other. They enjoyed spending time together. They really had a they had a

662
00:47:07.440 --> 00:47:13.199
healthy marriage by all accounts. Yeah, Kathleen was a fabulous step mom,

663
00:47:13.280 --> 00:47:15.719
which is a really hard role to
fill, so I think she might.

664
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She obviously was an exceptional woman.
Yeah, She's very loving, lovely person

665
00:47:20.559 --> 00:47:23.719
and had had a lot going for
both in terms of her career and her

666
00:47:23.760 --> 00:47:28.480
intelligence, but also as a loving, kind of carrying mother and wife m

667
00:47:28.519 --> 00:47:32.000
HM. In the months before her
death, that Peterson's became empty nesters,

668
00:47:32.480 --> 00:47:37.400
and they celebrated with a huge party
in early September, probably right before nine

669
00:47:37.400 --> 00:47:44.599
to eleven. As the crowd dwindled, the remaining partygoers became increasingly intoxicated and

670
00:47:44.840 --> 00:47:47.320
inhibitions were lowered. I know you
think I'm going to talk about a key

671
00:47:47.360 --> 00:47:52.280
party here, but I'm not.
Several people jumped into the pool, Kathleen

672
00:47:52.320 --> 00:47:57.480
among them. Unfortunately, she dove
into the shallow end of the pool,

673
00:47:57.719 --> 00:48:01.800
resulting in a pretty bad head and
neck injury that plagued Kathleen until her death.

674
00:48:02.800 --> 00:48:07.679
She frequently was seen wearing a neck
brace, and she had been taking

675
00:48:07.039 --> 00:48:14.239
muscle relaxers and valuum to help her
through the pain. Okay, so Kathleen

676
00:48:14.320 --> 00:48:16.320
was forty eight and she still knew
how to have a good time. I'll

677
00:48:16.360 --> 00:48:21.239
say I would have to close their
blinds because you keep looking out the windows.

678
00:48:21.239 --> 00:48:23.119
There's a lot of distractions, a
lot of things going on in the

679
00:48:23.159 --> 00:48:30.880
neighborhood, the mail carrier delivering our
mail. I'm sorry, I'll try to

680
00:48:30.960 --> 00:48:35.000
pay closer attention. All right,
you're usually laser focused. I know.

681
00:48:36.920 --> 00:48:39.679
I want to share one thing that
happened involving Michael and Patty's son, Clayton

682
00:48:39.719 --> 00:48:43.440
in nineteen ninety four. It's a
bit of an aside, but I think

683
00:48:43.440 --> 00:48:46.960
it's interesting and perhaps relevant to understanding
the family dynamics. It's insane. The

684
00:48:47.079 --> 00:48:52.199
challenges it is a little bit insane
too. Clayton had some He had had

685
00:48:52.199 --> 00:48:57.679
some disciplinary problems in nineteen ninety three
during the summer between his freshmen and sophomore

686
00:48:57.719 --> 00:49:01.079
years at college, and Michael had
sent him to get counseling. In April

687
00:49:01.119 --> 00:49:06.440
of nineteen eighty four, though,
someone discovered a bomb in Duke University's main

688
00:49:06.519 --> 00:49:10.280
administration building, along with a note
saying that war had been declared on the

689
00:49:10.360 --> 00:49:15.519
university. The bomb was basically a
gateorade bottle filled with gasoline and a fuse.

690
00:49:16.079 --> 00:49:20.199
The fuse had actually been lit,
but it had burned out just inches

691
00:49:20.280 --> 00:49:25.280
before igniting the gasoline. The investigation
led police to Clayton, and when Michael

692
00:49:25.320 --> 00:49:30.440
gave them permission to search their home, investigators found an assortment of model rocket

693
00:49:30.480 --> 00:49:37.440
engines, gunpowder, different lengths of
fuses, and equipment for making official university

694
00:49:37.519 --> 00:49:42.400
student ID cards that had been stolen. There were six pipe bombs and enough

695
00:49:42.440 --> 00:49:46.239
materials to make thirteen more. Two
of the bombs were rigged to be launched

696
00:49:46.280 --> 00:49:53.159
from a crossbow. Clayton was arrested
and charged with possession of unregistered destructive devices

697
00:49:53.199 --> 00:49:58.760
and for the manufacture of those devices. Although he could have faced up to

698
00:49:58.840 --> 00:50:02.159
thirty years in prison and seven hundred
and fifty thousand dollars in fines, he

699
00:50:02.199 --> 00:50:07.239
struck a plea deal. He apologized
to the judge, and he was sentenced

700
00:50:07.239 --> 00:50:12.119
to four years and one month in
a federal prison. That story has not

701
00:50:12.239 --> 00:50:16.920
talked about enough. I think that's
really indicative of the troubles that were in

702
00:50:17.000 --> 00:50:21.320
the house with these kids. And
I had said that they were happy when

703
00:50:21.320 --> 00:50:22.559
they were younger. I think they
were happy, but I think as they

704
00:50:22.599 --> 00:50:30.119
all aged into adolescents and early adulthood, they all struggled with a lot of

705
00:50:30.199 --> 00:50:31.679
problems. Yeah, I'm going to
go into that a little bit at the

706
00:50:31.880 --> 00:50:37.159
end. Yeah, everyone has their
issues as an adolescent and as a college

707
00:50:37.199 --> 00:50:42.360
student. But yeah, making bombs, making bombs and actually attempting to and

708
00:50:42.400 --> 00:50:46.800
they were in the family home.
It's really it's really I think it's horrifying.

709
00:50:46.880 --> 00:50:51.639
Yeah, And Michael would downplay it
and defend Clayton. He would basically

710
00:50:51.639 --> 00:50:54.360
say the bombs they were too small
to do any damage, and that Clayton

711
00:50:54.440 --> 00:50:59.639
was just trying to create a diversion
because he stole the ID, the machine

712
00:50:59.639 --> 00:51:02.840
to create student id's and so the
bomb was just a diversion, and Clayton

713
00:51:02.880 --> 00:51:07.840
said that they wouldn't have detonated,
but I believe they would have, yeah,

714
00:51:07.880 --> 00:51:09.800
for sure, gasoline and a fuse. I think we need to mention

715
00:51:09.840 --> 00:51:13.559
in the staircase they sweep us under
the rock. They're like, oh,

716
00:51:13.599 --> 00:51:16.119
Clayton had some. It just makes
it sound like, you know, he

717
00:51:16.199 --> 00:51:22.000
could old boy stuff, right,
But making a bomb multiple pumps, that's

718
00:51:22.159 --> 00:51:27.840
that's troubling, Yeah, for sure. In nineteen ninety seven, Michael started

719
00:51:27.840 --> 00:51:31.920
writing a regular column for the Durham
Herald Son newspaper. He used the column

720
00:51:32.000 --> 00:51:37.280
mostly to attack the Durham government,
the police department, and the district attorney.

721
00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:40.639
He complained about taxes, and he
criticized the police for wasting their time

722
00:51:40.719 --> 00:51:45.000
busting bingo halls and for their their
low close rate of solving crimes. Which

723
00:51:45.719 --> 00:51:49.320
I'm kind of with them on that
one. Right, you're spending your time

724
00:51:49.320 --> 00:51:52.639
busting bingo halls, you probably there's
probably other things you could be focusing on.

725
00:51:53.599 --> 00:51:57.159
In one of his columns, he
said, quote, the chance of

726
00:51:57.159 --> 00:52:01.199
a criminal getting caught is only slightly
better than getting hit by lightning. A

727
00:52:01.239 --> 00:52:07.280
lot of police officers were irritated by
his commentary, which would provide fodder for

728
00:52:07.599 --> 00:52:12.000
his defense team to try and claim
that the police targeted him after Kathleen's death

729
00:52:12.440 --> 00:52:15.719
because of these columns. After a
couple of years of writing this column,

730
00:52:15.719 --> 00:52:20.360
Peterson had made a bit of a
name for himself and he had obviously strong

731
00:52:20.400 --> 00:52:24.000
opinions on the local government, so
he decided to run for mayor of Durham.

732
00:52:24.400 --> 00:52:29.360
This was in nineteen ninety nine.
There were five candidates in the October

733
00:52:29.400 --> 00:52:32.360
primary election, and the top two
vote getters would end up being on the

734
00:52:32.400 --> 00:52:37.239
ballot in November. He ran a
grassroots campaign, with most of his donations

735
00:52:37.239 --> 00:52:42.440
coming in small amounts of less than
one hundred dollars. The main issues he

736
00:52:42.519 --> 00:52:47.639
campaigned on were standing up against drugs, gangs and illegal weapons, promoting racial

737
00:52:47.679 --> 00:52:52.800
harmony, and returning power to the
people. It looked like he was on

738
00:52:52.840 --> 00:52:55.599
his way to a top two finish
in the primary, but then a reporter

739
00:52:55.760 --> 00:53:00.320
confronted him about a claim he had
made that he had earned two purple hearts

740
00:53:00.320 --> 00:53:04.239
while in Vietnam and that he took
shrapnel in his leg, which was why

741
00:53:04.280 --> 00:53:07.000
he walked with a limp. The
reporter did some research and found that there

742
00:53:07.000 --> 00:53:12.280
were no purple hearts, and Michael's
injury had occurred in the car accident that

743
00:53:12.320 --> 00:53:15.360
we had talked about earlier, not
in combat. Michael admitted that he had

744
00:53:15.400 --> 00:53:20.280
lied, and he wrote a paid
political column where he tried to set the

745
00:53:20.320 --> 00:53:23.800
record straight and repair his damaged reputation, but it was too little, too

746
00:53:23.880 --> 00:53:28.920
late, and he ended up coming
in third, just six hundred votes behind

747
00:53:29.000 --> 00:53:31.440
the second place finished. How did
he really, Yeah, he was close.

748
00:53:31.480 --> 00:53:35.840
I mean, I think without that
news coming out, he probably would

749
00:53:35.840 --> 00:53:39.719
have at least made it to the
general election. I think it's interesting that

750
00:53:39.760 --> 00:53:45.119
he's running on a platform against drugs
and alcohol when his two sons had a

751
00:53:45.119 --> 00:53:47.519
lot of run ins with the law, I believe, and they able to

752
00:53:47.639 --> 00:53:52.440
have issues with drugs and alcohol.
They're both call themselves alcoholics. Oh really

753
00:53:52.559 --> 00:53:58.320
yeah. Interesting. I know we
have not gotten to the actual crime or

754
00:53:58.360 --> 00:54:01.559
alleged crime, but I think it's
a good point to say, oh my

755
00:54:01.599 --> 00:54:06.360
gosh, h part one, yes, I promise you. In part two

756
00:54:06.400 --> 00:54:10.719
we will talk about Kathleen's death and
whether that was an accident or a crime,

757
00:54:10.840 --> 00:54:14.159
and all of the evidence and all
of that stuff. But I think

758
00:54:14.199 --> 00:54:22.960
this is a good point to stop, all right, before we go.

759
00:54:22.039 --> 00:54:28.239
I wanted to give a heartfelt and
hearty thank you to our listeners and patrons

760
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for your support. This month,
we were able to donate one hundred and

761
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fifty dollars to the San Bernardino Cave
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762
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about this team of volunteers and we
did the case on Aaron Corwin, just

763
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super sad case where she disappeared in
the desert. And this group of people,

764
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they you know, they search for
people who are lost or trapped and

765
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rescue people who are like in mind
shafts and things like that, and they're

766
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just incredibly brave volunteers. And Aaron's
mo lor Hevelyn, actually messaged us a

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while back and asked us if we
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our donations. And so we're happy
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really heroic people. And you said
some of those volunteers have lost their lives.

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Yeah, yeah, I mean it's
a very dangerous work that they do.

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It's important work, and I know
that Aaron's family was super just grateful

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that they were able to help find
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