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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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If there's one thing we've learned in over twenty years of.
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Marriage, some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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And some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to love, Mary Kill, Hey Tina, Hey Rich, welcome back. Yeah,
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we're right back where we were a couple of hours ago.
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It's been a while since we've done a three part episode.
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We really get to spend a lot of quality time
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together when we do three part episodes.
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And some not so quality time. Where's my room shot?
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Yes, it's funny. I don't know if it's out wrong button.
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Oh there you go.
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Oh gosh. Three part episodes are grueling for everyone.
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They are grueling.
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Yeah, there is a lot to cover here.
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Well, sometimes when we start art recording an episode, we
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don't actually know if it's going to be two or
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three parts, and in this case, I was estimating that
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it might be two parts, but it really turned out
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there was a lot to talk about. And so you
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kind of saved my bacon by creating a snack for
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this part because I was not prepared with a snack.
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And look at my face. Was I happy about that?
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Because you literally told me at the end of episode two,
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and it's the same day.
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Yeah, so I said I'll do it, and then I didn't.
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And then I had to break my New Year's resolution
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because I was like, I was going to make something
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for dinner, and then I said I wasn't going to
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do takeout the months of January. It wasn't going to
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eat sugar. I don't know who I think I am
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all of a sudden, I have such a dreamer, some resolve.
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But yeah, so anyway, you were now that I had
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to make this for you. Now you have to go
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get me takeout when we're done.
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Okay, I can do that. While you were making that,
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I actually took a little nap, so I'm yeah.
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And I also did launder. But hey, no problem, it's all.
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It all works out in the end. The woman is
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over worked and always tired and grumpy and the men
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wonder why.
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But anyway, well, I appreciate you.
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Oh that makes it all better. I feel so warm inside.
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Thank you so much. I appreciate you too, that's sure.
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Do yep, that's a good thing. I can't recognize, Sarcastle.
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So you've already shirked on our contract negotiations that we
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resolved in the previous episode. It is not a frosty
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beverage here at all. Actually, my water bottle is almost
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empty and I'm part of.
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You are.
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Oh my god, I'm the worst person in the world.
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I think that today is going to be a solo episode,
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so see you later.
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I didn't take all the ice, but there's not a lot.
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Oh my god, everyone knows there are used tobacle and yeah,
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it's ridiculous. I was going to say a bad word.
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Well I will just say I did not agree to
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our contract negotiations. Oh there's a little bit left. I'll
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go get you some. God, I'll be right back.
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Okay, this is going to affect the quality of the show.
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It's going way out.
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Well, would you like to reveal what you were working
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so hard to make in the kitchen?
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Sure, because I didn't want to go to the store
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because we really didn't have time because we lived two
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hundred miles away from the nearest thing to the store.
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I made you South African picnic bread.
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Oh wow, you actually made something like you worked hard
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and made something from scratch rather than just I would
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have just pulled a bag of chips out of the
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cupboard or something.
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Well, I wanted to do something South African and I
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found this recipe and I was like, okay, we have
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everything that it takes pretty much, and I think it's
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a pretty interesting recipe. Oh okay, So it's like a bread,
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but it's very eggy. There's egg, cheese, bacon, and onions
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in it and you mix it all together. There's very
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little flour in it. The eggs are what binds it
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all together.
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Okay, that sounds really good.
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But I think it's something that would be great for
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breakfast because there's a lot of eggs, a lot of
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breads and stuff in it. So if you're a busy
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person taking the kids to school, you know, I think
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it's a great thing to grab really quick. But let's
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try it first. Let's do it. Did you like the
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picnic bread.
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I thought it was really good. Yeah, it is very eggy.
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It's almost like eating an omelet, but like with the
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sort of bread, you know, binding the omelet together, but
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a really good flavor like the bacon and cheese and.
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The onion is a little strong in it. I have
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to the recipe because it made two loaves and we
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don't need two loaves of this sitting around but yeah,
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I thought it was really good other than the egg
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or not the egg, but the onion was a little strong, yeah,
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especially spring onions, and we didn't have spring onions, so
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I just used yellow onion.
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Well, it's pretty amazing that you whipped this up with
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little mourning.
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Oh so it's just flattered. Whatever you are. Truly saved
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your butt once again.
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And a nice presentation too, with the little clementine on
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the side and a little strawberry candy too.
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Well, I'm happy to help.
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I can tell how about we continue the story of
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Reva Steincamp and Oscar Pistorius.
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Good idea.
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How about a quick recap?
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In part two, we talked about Oscar and Reva's short
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relationship just three and a half months before she was killed.
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We heard a text exchange between the two of them
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two weeks before her death that showed the cracks in
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their relationship, and we walked through the night that Oscar
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shot Riva four times through a door in the bathroom
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of his house. Oscar claimed he thought it was an intruder,
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but he was immediately arrested and charged with premeditated murder.
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Public opinion in South Africa was mostly against Oscar. Though
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many could relate to his extreme fear of crime, he
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was released on bail and lived comfortably. That's an understatement
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in his uncle's mansion while awaiting trial.
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Yeah, I think most of us would pay good money
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to live in the environment that Oscar was living in
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during that time.
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Sounded like a very nice house.
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Anything else that that was a very brief recap. Anything
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else that jumps out at you that we should mention
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before we get into part three.
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Between parts two and three, you sent me a bunch
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of pictures to post and Riva was just a beautiful
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just stumming. Yeah, she was studying.
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Unlike the United States, South Africa does not use juries
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in criminal trials. The jury system was abolished in nineteen
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sixty nine during apartheid after the government acknowledged an uncomfortable
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truth an all white jury could not be trusted to
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fairly judge black defendants. Even after apartheid ended, juries were
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never reinstated. With eleven official languages and a population made
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up of many races, religions, and cultures, South Africa chose
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a different path, placing decisions of guilt or innocence in
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the hands of highly trained judges. Rather than attempting to
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assemble juries that could never truly be free of bias.
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That meant the judge assigned to Oscar Pistorius's case would
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wield extraordinary power. One person alone would decide his guilt
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or innocence on each of the charges he faced. Both
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the prosecution and the defense waited anxiously to see who
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that would be. The case was assigned to Thoka Zella Masipa.
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Her background was remarkable. Born just a year before apartheid
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laws were formally codified by the ruling National Party, Oka Zella,
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known as Tilly in her youth, grew up in a
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society designed to limit opportunities for black South Africans, and
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especially for black women. She was the first of ten children,
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raised in a two room house in Soweto. Five of
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her siblings died in childhood. For thirteen years, she slept
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on the floor beneath the family's kitchen table, the girls
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confined to one room, the boys to the other, until
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she earned a chance to attend boarding school in nineteen
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seventy four, at age twenty four. She finished college with
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a degree in social work, focusing on women in the
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townships who were navigating poverty, abuse and domestic violence. In
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nineteen seventy six, at the height of the Sowetto uprisings,
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she became a journalist for the World Newspaper, a black
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publication critical of the apartheid regime. During that period, she
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was arrested while protesting government efforts to suppress the press.
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While imprisoned, Massipa and other women journalists refused orders to
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clean toilets, asserting their status as political prisoners. They also
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refused to enter please in court, rejecting the legitimacy of
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the apartheid government altogether. She later became women's page editor
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at the Post, the first black woman to ever hold
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that role. While working as a journalist and raising a family,
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Messipa studied law part time, a journey that took her
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ten years. She earned her law degree in nineteen ninety,
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the same year Nelson Mandela was released from prison. After
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seven years practicing law, she was appointed to the bench
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in nineteen ninety eight, becoming only the second black woman
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ever knew aimed a High Court judge in South Africa.
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Even years later, she remained part of a small minority.
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By the time of the Pistorius trial, just seventy six
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of the country's two hundred and thirty nine judges were women.
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On the bench, Masipa had a formidable reputation. She was
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widely described as a tough cookie, direct, unsentimental, and impatient
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with nonsense. She was also known for being particularly hard
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on men who victimized women. To many observers, her appointment
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to Oscar Pistorius's case felt symbolic, almost poetic. A dignified
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black woman who had once slept on the floor of
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a sowetto shack was now tasked with deciding the fate
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of a wealthy, world famous white athlete. For a country
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still reckoning with its past, the symmetry was impossible to ignore.
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In the weeks leading up to trial, prosecutors added three
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additional charges to Oscar Pistorius's indictment. All were violations of
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South Africa's Firearms Control Act, and none were directly related
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to the shooting of Riva Steam Camp. The first charge
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stemmed from an incident in which Oscar allegedly fired his
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pistol through the open sun roof of a moving car
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while driving with two friends, one of them his then girlfriend,
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Samantha Taylor. The second involved the negligent discharge of a
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firearm inside a crowded restaurant, the episode that had narrowly
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avoided serious injury that we talked about in part two.
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He made his friend take the huge for that.
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Yeah, exactly. The third charge alleged that at the time
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of Reva's death, Oscar was in possession of several rounds
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of ammunition for which he did not hold a valid license.
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Taken together, the purpose of these charges was clear. Prosecutors
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were attempting to establish a pattern an ongoing disregard for
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firearm safety. So these charges, it's odd that they were
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added to his murder indictment because they really weren't related
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at all to that. I think the prosecution just they
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just wanted to make the case that this was a
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who was careless and reckless. Oscar's legal team was deeply concerned. Privately,
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his lawyers urged him to plead guilty to at least
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one of the weapons charges. Doing so, they believed, would
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demonstrate accountability and remorse. It would allow Oscar to appear
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candid and cooperative, qualities that might lend credibility to his
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claim that Riva's death had been a tragic accident. But
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Oscar refused. He insisted the sun roof shooting never happened.
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He maintained that the restaurant discharge was a freak accident,
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and he claimed the unlicensed ammunition found in his home
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belonged to his father, Henke Pistorius, who did have a
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license for it. Oscar would not concede a single point.
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He entered pleas of not guilty on all charges. On
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February fourteenth, twenty fourteen, the one year anniversary of Riva's death,
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and just two weeks before the start of his trial,
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Oscar released a public statement, No words can adequately capture
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my feelings about the devas stating accident that has caused
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such heartache for everyone who truly loved and continues to
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love Reva. The pain and sadness, especially for Riva's parents,
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family and friends, consumes me with sorrow. The loss of
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Reva and the complete trauma of that day I will
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carry with me for the rest of my life. It
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was the last time Oscar Pistorius would speak publicly before
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the trial began. Oscar's in a really weird position here
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because he admitted that he shot her, but he also
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has to try to make the case that it was
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an accident, so he wants to come across as very apologetic,
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but at the same time, he can't really admit anything
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beyond it being a tragic accident. From that point forward,
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the story would no longer be shaped by statements or speculation,
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but by sworn testimony, cross examination, and evidence laid bare
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in open court.