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Hi.
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I'm Tina, and I'm Rich. If there's one thing we've
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learned in over twenty years of marriage, it's that some.
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Days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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And some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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Welcome to a bonus episode of Love Mary Kill, Hey Rich,
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Hey Tina.
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How are you.
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I'm doing good? How are you?
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I'm all right. I've been consumed with this story this
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week about the Decker sisters. I told you a little
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bit about it. I started writing a lengthy social media
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post about it yesterday, and then I just kept finding
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more and more information, and I said, you know, maybe
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we should just do a bonus episode on the case.
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It's a very sad case. So today there are no
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snacks or shenanigans. Please listen with care. This is a
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deeply disturbing and heartbreaking case. The situation is still unfolding
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and details are quickly changing. We hope that Travis Decker
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will be found and brought to justice soon. On Friday
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May thirtieth, twenty twenty five, the Decker sisters Peyton nine,
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Evelyn eight, and Olivia five, disappeared during a court ordered
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visit with their father. Thirty two year old Army veteran
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Travis Decker in Winnatchee, Washington, about one hundred fifty miles
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east of Seattle. Travis had been granted limited custody three
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hours every Friday and eight hours every other weekend, with
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no overnights allowed, due to his ex wife's growing concerns
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about his mental health. Previously, when he was allowed overnight visits,
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the children had slept with him at an armory or
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in a tent, and their mother was not comfortable with
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those arrangements. Travis was not allowed to take the children
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more than twenty miles from their home. On May thirtieth,
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he arrived to pick up his daughters at five p m.
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He and their mother, Whitney Decker, thirty three, talked for
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about twenty minutes before he left with the girls. They
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had a good co parenting relationship. He said, I'll see
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you at eight o'clock. Everything seemed normal to Whitney, although
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later she said Travis seemed quieter than usual. Earlier that week,
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Travis told her he had nothing left in the world
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except for her, Peyton, Evelyn, and Olivia. He'd recently been
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concerned about his beloved dog, Chinook. Because Travis didn't have
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a home or much money. He was worried about Chinook
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getting overheated in the summer months and having enough money
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to buy food for him. Whitney had offered to take
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the dog. It's unclear what happened to him. When the
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girls didn't return on time and Travis's phone went straight
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to voicemail, Whitney was worried. She called the Wenatchee Police
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department at nine forty five p m. They reached out
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to the Washington State Police to request an Amber alert,
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but the request was denied. Authority cited a lack of
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evidence that the children were in immediate danger, noting that
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Travis Decker had no prior history of domestic abuse. Instead,
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an endangered Missing Person alert or EMPA was issued, but
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not until the following day. More on this. Later, on Monday,
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June second, around three pm, three days after they went missing,
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the bodies of Peyton, Evelyn, and Olivia, were discovered near
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Rock Island Campground, a remote site in Shelan County, Washington,
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near the town of Leavenworth. The campground is about forty
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miles from their home in Winatchee and just eleven miles
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from the Canadian border. It was a devastating discovery. The
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girls were found down a wooded embankment with plastic bags
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over their heads and zip ties around their wrists. The
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coroner confirmed the cause of death as asphyxiation, a tragic
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end for the three precious little girls whose lives were
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just beginning. Have you seen pictures of the girls? I
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have just beautiful little girls.
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Yeah.
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Phone records show that Travis Decker visited the campground the
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day before the murders and the days leading up to
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his disappearance. Prosecutors say Decker searched Google for information on
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how to relocate to Canada. According to court documents, some
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of his searches included how does a person move to Canada,
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how to relocate to Canada? And Jobs Canada. Hundreds of
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people in the close knit community of Winatchi gathered to
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Tuesday at Memorial Park for a vigil for Peyton, Evelyn
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and Olivia. A large growing memorial filled with flowers, stuffed animals, drawings,
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and balloons sits at the park. The girls were beloved
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members of the community and active members of the Fabulous
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Feet Dance Studio and the Short Shakespeare Theater Group. Local
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resident Samansha DoD told Fox thirteen, Seattle quote. Seeing them
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every day, seeing how happy dancing made them feel, was
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truly special, and I think that's something that the studio
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itself is really going to miss. Decker's truck, a white
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twenty seventeen GMC Sierra, was found abandoned near the campground
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seventy five to one hundred yards from the girl's bodies.
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The truck had two bloody handprints on the tailgate and
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inside his personal items were found, including blankets, food, car seats,
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and his wallet. A tent and cooler were also found nearby.
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On Tuesday, a judge issued a warrant for Decker's arrest
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after charging him with three counts of first degree kidnapping
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and three counts of first deg murder, and ordered he
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beheld without bail. He hasn't been captured yet, but.
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But once he is there will be no bail exactly.
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On Thursday, an additional charge of evading arrest was added.
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I ask you a quick question. So you said blood
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was found on the tailgate or bloody handprints were found
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on the tailgate of his truck, but the girls were asphyxiated,
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so the blood wasn't from them. I assume, yeah.
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I don't know who the blood was from. It could
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have been from the girls, but so far we don't
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have a lot of details about the situation.
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Yeah. Travis Decker, who suffers from borderline personality disorder and
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post traumatic stress disorder, had recently quit counseling. He survived
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a traumatic car accident. He was living out of his truck,
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camping and sometimes staying in hotels, according to court records.
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Those close to him worried that he was on the
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verge of something dangerous. Whitney says that he isn't evil,
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but that quote, something broke in him. She believes this
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tragedy could have been prevented if law enforcement had acted
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sooner and issued an Amber alert on her behalf. Her
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attorney said, quote, something came out of this man and
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he broke. That's it. When that man picked up those
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girls his babies, he did not have a plan to
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kill them. There's nothing that indicates that he did. Travis
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Decker joined the Army in twenty twelve. He served in
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Afghanistan in twenty fourteen for four months, where he was
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among a group of elite airborne paratrooper rangers. From twenty
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fourteen to twenty sixteen, he was an automatic rifleman with
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the seventy fifth Ranger Regiment at Joint Base Lewis McCord
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in Washington. Later, he transferred to the Washington National Guard
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in twenty twenty one, rising to the rank of sergeant.
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He was a full time member of the National Guard
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until twenty twenty four, when he became a part time member.
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He stopped attending required training sessions and was placed on leave.
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Disciplinary discharge proceedings were under way. A military spokeswoman told
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the AP quote, this is an absolute tragedy. We are
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mourning along with the community. In an interview with Fox
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News thirteen Seattle, a former squad member who served with
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a travist Decker in Italy, speaking anonymously, described him as quiet,
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hard working, somewhat of a loner, and exhibiting narcissistic traits.
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He revealed that Decker had been removed from the Elite
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Ranger Regiment after failing to complete training. According to the
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former squad mate, Travis idolized his father, a former Green Beret,
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and seemed determined to live up to his legacy, always
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carrying the weight of something to prove. He noted that
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Decker's social media accounts were deleted after the murders, though
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it's unclear whether he removed them himself or if they
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were taken down by authorities. Quote. All of us who
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served with him feel completely betrayed. Were beyond distraught over
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what's happened, he said. Whitney said that Travis attempted to
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get help from veteran resources, but none were available to him.
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She recalled him having recurrent nightmares and only being able
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to sleep for a few hours each night. She said
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he was a good, active father who loved his daughters
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very much. He never missed his daughter's dance classes, theater productions,
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or soccer games. Their custom the agreement was working. The
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couple were married for seven years before filing for divorce
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in twenty twenty three. Travis initiated the divorce after moving
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out of their home in late twenty twenty two, telling
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his wife he wasn't worth it.
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After meeting online, Whitney and Travis quickly became inseparable. The
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couple first lived together on a Joint Army Air Force
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base in Washington State, then spent two years stationed in
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Italy before relocating to Georgia for another two and then
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returned to Washington. In September twenty twenty four, Whitney, who
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had full custody of the children, petitioned the court to
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quote put restrictions in place on his parenting due to
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quote concerning factors regarding Travis's mental health and stability. In
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the filing, Whitney requested that Decker be evaluated for anger
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management and domestic violence and have a full psychiatric evaluation
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by a licensed psychiatrist. Ballure to comply would result in
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further limitations of his parental visitation. In court documents, she wrote, quote,
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Travis just keeps getting more and more unstable. He has
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made huge sacrifices to serve our country and loves his
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girls very much, but he has got to get better
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for our girls. Since her separation, it's become increasingly clear
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that Travis has been struggling to maintain stability. Travis also
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has some emotional and mental health issues that were the
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primary catalyst to the end of our marriage. His borderline
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personality disorder and narcissism became rampant. She described several troubling incidents,
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and one she said, Travis quote first into my home
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against my objections and yelled for the girls. In another
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just days before Christmas twenty twenty three, your daughter Olivia
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facetimed her mother in tears, screaming and crying with Travis
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nowhere in sight. After one of the girls was injured
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and a separate incident. Whitney claimed Travis hitchhiked to her
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house and asked to sleep in the basement with the girls. However,
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Whitney made it clear that Travis was not an abusive
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father or husband, although sometimes after a visit, the girls
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would return home crying or upset. According to The Seattle Times,
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Whitney said, quote, they are all happy, smart, well adjusted girls,
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with the exception of when Travis brings them back to
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me after his visitations. When Eshaw Winnie was doing her
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attorney Adrianna Cozart said quote, I think she is still
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reeling from losing her entire world. She is strong and
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kind and wants this tragedy to spur change and save lives.
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That is what is driving her right now. An Amber
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alert was not enacted because law enforcement did not believe
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that the girls were in imminent danger and there was
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no indication that Decker would harm his daughters, despite his
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history of mental health issues. He'd never been abusive or
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violent with them or Whitney. Instead of an AMBER alert,
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and endangered Missing Persons alert was issued, but not immediately.
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An EMPA notification does not send a push notification or
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text message to all cell phones in the targeted area
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about the missing child or children, as an AMBER alert does.
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We don't get an AMBU alert very often, but when
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you do, it's like super joy.
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Yeah, it's such a great tool for law enforcement. Chris Loftis,
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director of public Affairs for the Washington State Patrol, said, quote,
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in this case, it was a parent with custodial privileges
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and the children had not been returned home on time.
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But that's a rather common occurrence and not something where
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you just automatically assume abduction. We're people too, you know.
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So the loss of a child, the loss of two children,
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the loss of three children is devastating. Everybody always looks
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to how we can improve. Loftis said, there wasn't enough
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evidence that Peyton, Evelyn and Olivia were in peril. Quote,
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we just didn't have that. Everyone wishes we could turn
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back the clock. It's so devastating.
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Captain Brian Chance of the Winatchee Police Department said in response, quote,
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were we frustrated? Yes, probably quite a little bit. When
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he was asked whether an Amber alert would have made
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a difference in the search for the Ducker sisters, he
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declined to speculate. White Decker is lobbying to change the
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Amber alert policy along with improving veterans' mental health benefits.
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Adriana Cozart, her attorney, set on her behalf quote, when
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there is a parent with limited visitation, that has a
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history of mental health issues, and is a military veteran
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with the training necessary to kill one hundred different ways,
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the Amber alert should have been issued. Travis Decker is
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now wanted on three accounts of first degree murder and kidnapping.
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More than five hundred tips have poured into law enforcement.
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There is a twenty thousand dollars reward for information leading
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to his capture and arrest. He may be traveling along
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the Pacific Crest Trail, which extends two thousand, six hundred
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and fifty miles along the Pacific coast from Canada to Mexico,
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passing through Washington State and Oregon. So it's a vast
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area that they're searching, but authorities have no leads on
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Decker's whereabouts. Shelan County Sheriff Mike Morrison said at a
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press conference, quote it could be anywhere in the country.
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We're searching anywhere in every where. Morrison acknowledged that it
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is possible that Decker may have taken his own life. Quote,
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We're operating under the assumption that he's still out there
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despite the death of their three beautiful daughters. Whitney Decker
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who he is at his core. Adriana Coozart said, quote,