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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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And if there's one thing we've learned, and over twenty
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years of marriage.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your husband, and.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to love, Mary.
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Kill Hey Tina, Hey Rich.
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How are you?
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I'm good? How are you?
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I'm doing good?
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Normally we record part one and part two very close together,
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but this time, pretty much a whole week has gone by.
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I know, and you had your first week at your
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new job. How was it?
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It was really good. I mean it was a short week,
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it was only four days, but everyone is super nice
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and everyone everyone. I have not met anyone who wasn't
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nice so far. You sure, well, I haven't met everyone yet.
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So you want audition anyone in the office. Now is
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the time that few people this podcast.
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Now is not the time, and I would I don't
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have anything to dish about anyway. But no, it was
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very good first week. I really love the company's product.
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I think the people are great.
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So you've been in good spirits. That's good to see you.
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Yeah.
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So in the mornings, you are always up at least
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an hour before I am. You get up and you
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take a shower, because you have an actual job to
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get to where you know, I stay up later working
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and we just have kind of different schedules, and usually
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I don't see you for a couple of hours when
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you're up, and oftentimes we find that we are wearing
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not the same outfit, but very similar outfits. It happens
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a lot, where just the other day it wasn't it
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was just random. It was like we were both wearing
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blue sweatshirts with hoods on them, which I wear a
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lot of hoodies, so that's not a surprise. But or
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it'll be like khaki shorts and a black T shirt
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or whatever, like we're wearing similar colors. It happens a lot.
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So today after my shower, I knew we were recording
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of like, okay, what would Rich be wearing today? And
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I was like looking, and I was trying to like,
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you don't match my brain with yours, and we are matching.
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Yeah, you nailed it, black putty, but I wear black.
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Like it's been really chilly and rainy and cloudy here
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in Michigan this week. It's so weird that it's going
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to be a Memorial weekend. I know. I think it's
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like fifty five out, it's really chilly, kind of a bummer,
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But yeah, we're both wearing black hoodie.
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It seems to happen.
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And we're both wearing leggings.
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I am not wearing leggings. I am wearing my usual
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blue jeans. But yeah, it seems to happen a lot
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when we record. For some reason, on recording day, we
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seem to wear the same thing a lot.
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Well, it's not just recording days, but sometimes it's easy
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to predict what you're going to wear because you wear
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the same things a lot. But also, like on game day,
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you're going to wear you know, your Michigan's game stuff, and.
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It's harder to predict. During baseball season, there's a game
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like almost every.
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Day, right right, and you actually don't wear much Tigers stuff.
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Now it's because it's every day. You can't. I can't
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wear a Tigers thing every day. But if it's a
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big game, yeah, playoff, playoff time, I'll be wearing a
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lot of Tigers gear.
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Well, sometimes on recording days you'll wear a love Mary
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He'll sweatshirt.
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True, that's true. Well, before we get to part two
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of the Gail and George Fulton case, I have another
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super special snack today from one of our listeners. Fellow
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Michigander Sarah sent us this snack and it's from a
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company called Michigan Awesome, which I had never heard of.
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You don't know that company?
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Yeah, I don't know it either, but a really cute box.
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It's the really cute box. And I think you're gonna
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like what's inside of it.
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I think I know what's inside of it, do you?
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Yeah?
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I might have peaked.
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Oh okay, well I think you're gonna like it.
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An yeah.
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But before we have the snack, I wanted to give
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a quick shout out to a fundraiser that Sarah and
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her husband help organize. It's called Miles for Miracles. It's
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a cancer fundraiser put on by the Mount Pleasant Middle
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School staff and students. Sarah and her husband are both
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teachers there. One hundred percent of the money goes to
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local cancer services. They're actually today holding a school wide
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celebration of life, but they're always accepting donations, so we'll
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include a link to the charity website in our show notes.
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I think they've raised a ton of money over the
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years too. Yeah, Sarah and her husband, and we love
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Mary Kill will be making a donation too.
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Yeah, it's a great cause. So what Sarah sent us
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from Michigan Awesome are two things, dark chocolate cherries and
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cinnamon roasted almonds, which both amazing, really good. Let's try.
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What did you think about those Michigan Awesome snacks?
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What's not to like about Michigan Awesome snacks?
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They were both really good.
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Yeah, very good.
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The almonds reminded me of like when you go to
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the ballpark and you smell them roasting the cinnamon roasted almonds.
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So good, very good. I love cherries in any form,
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but the dark chocolate cherries are a big favorite. Yeah.
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And a lot of Michigan towns, like our tourists destinations.
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We have Cherry Republic. If you've ever been to a
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cherry Republic, they have tons of samples, so it's always
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fun to go in there and try the different things
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that they have.
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Yeah, for sure. Well, thanks again Sarah for sending those.
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That was so nice of you. We really appreciate it. Well,
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if you haven't already listened to part one of this case,
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you should go back and do that now. But do
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you want to give us a quick synopsis before we
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dive into part two.
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Well, you were nice enough to write it out Otherwise,
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I don't think I could give you a lot of
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fine detail. I do remember some crazy things about part one.
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Gail Fulton was a devoted wife and mother living in
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Lake Orion, Michigan. Her husband, George, had once dreamed of
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success and stability, but instead found himself entangled in an
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affair with Donna Trapani, his volatile and manipulative boss in Florida.
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What began as a secret romance spiraled into a tangled
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web of lies, emotional blackmail, and broken promises. Donna claimed
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she was pregnant and dying of cancer, and George, torn
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between guilt, obligation and desire, tried to have it both ways. Gail,
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devastated and spiraling into depression, struggled to hold her family
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together while her children tried to care for her. Then
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came the July fourth peace summit at a motel, where Donna, Gail,
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and George attempted the unthinkable to work things out over
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line at Olive Garden. It did not go well. Now,
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with George claiming he was done with Donna and promising
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to recommit to his family and marriage, the question was
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was it really over, and what would Donna do next
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to try to manipulate George into staying. I googled a
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picture of George and Gail, and they looked like a
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really nice couple. Georgees do look like a filandering piece
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of garbage.
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It's hard to tell by looking at a picture of
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somebody who is a philandering piece of garbage.
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But I know he was.
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But in the picture they look very respectable.
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They looked like a very nice, loving couple. Yeah, remind
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me where we left off at the very end of
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part one.
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So after the July fourth debacle where they all met
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had lunch at Olive Garden, George took Gail home, but
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then he said, oh, I have to go back to
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the motel to stay with Donna because she is not well.
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And so he went back and he actually spent the
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night with Donna. But then he came back the next
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day and told Gail it's over really with Donna, Like
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I'm done with her this time. I mean it.
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I think if you chose to spend one more night,
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I would have been like, Nope, well yeah, done with you.
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Right, Yeah, for sure. After the chaos of July fourth,
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Gail did something extraordinary. She forgave him. She wanted to
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move forward desperately, but George he wasn't exactly falling over
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himself to make amends. He refused to apologize. When Gail
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told him what Donna had said to her in private,
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he didn't believe her.
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What did Donna say?
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I think she said something to the effect of, you've
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had him for twenty five years, it's my turn now, bitch.
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That's really nice. Emily, their daughter, who had just graduated
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high school, was furious. She urged her mother to kick
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him out and to move on. She supported Gail, but
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deep down, she also pitied her. She couldn't understand why
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her mother was letting this man walk all over her.
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But George insisted this time he was serious. He was
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done with Donna. He began making real efforts. He went
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back to church with Gail. He agreed to counseling with
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their parish priest. They even started talking about vacations together,
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and for the first time in a long time, Gail
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seemed happy. But Donna was not going to go quietly.
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She continued calling the house, pretending the calls were work related.
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If Gail or Emily answered, she would launch into cruel tirades.
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She emailed George, constantly flipping between seductive messages and vicious
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guilt trips. She warned him that the stress that he
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had caused was putting her pregnancy at risk, and that
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if she miscarried, it would be his fault. Her emails
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trashed Gail, calling her cold, hateful, evil. Donna painted herself
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as the victim, alone, dying carrying his child. She begged
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George to return to Florida, just for a little while,
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just to be there for her in her final days.
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Donna even called Gail's mother, Dora. She told her with
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eerie confidence that George was coming back to Florida, leaving
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Gail for good, and that Dora should go to Michigan
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to support her daughter through the inevitable. And Yet, even
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through Donna's campaign of harassment, George still didn't cut her
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off completely. He continued helping her with business matters, even
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sent her flowers before an upcoming financial audit. In one note,
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he wrote, I still love.
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You, George.
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He's still he wanted to have it both ways. In
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late September, George told Donna that he was coming to
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Florida one final time to collect the rest of his things,
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but this time he planned to bring Gail with him.
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That for Donna was the final betrayal. She left George
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a voicemail, and I'm going to ask you to read
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this voicemail. This is asking a lot. I know you
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are a really good actress and you're going to do
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a great job here. But I think it's a long voicemail.
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But I think it's important to get into the mind
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of Donna Trapani.
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So I'm not sure if you're giving me a backhanded
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compliment or not, like you think that I can play
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a sociopathic liar, or.
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I think you are an excellent actor. That was my
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compliment to you, is that I think you have a
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wide range that you can do.
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All right, Let's see what I can do here, all right.
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So the voicemail just started here because when she started,
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her voice was very calm. She told George that bringing
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Gail to Florida would be quote one of the lowest
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class things you could do. And then she continued on
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from there and here's well, or I'll have you take over.
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Well or I dive in full disclosure. I am already
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wrinkled about something else.
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Personal.
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So why would you flaunt something like that in front
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of me, knowing how much I am already hurting, know
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how much pain and anguish I am going through. How
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could you do something so cruel? You know, I know
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that she's cold and she's cruel, but Gail is turning
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you into being someone just like her, one cold and cruel,
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heartless person. I cannot believe you would have the audacity
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to want to bring her down here and flaunt her
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in front of me and make my pain worse. Don't
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you know how difficult it was going to be to
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see you anyway and not be able to spend any
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time with you. But I was willing to do that,
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and I was willing to give it a try and
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see if I could stay away from you. But then
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for you to bring her down here, that's just slow class,
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it's evil, it's cruel. It's very low and bastardly of
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you to do that, and I hope that God punishes