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Hi.
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I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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If there's one thing we've learned in over twenty years
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of marriage, it's.
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That some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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And some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to love, Mary Kill.
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Hey Tina, Hey Rich? How are you today?
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I am good.
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How are you doing okay? I've been battling a little
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bit of a headache all day, but now I am
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feeling better because I'm here with you to talk about
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part two of this interesting case.
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I'm wearing yellow today, so I hope that makes you
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feel more positive.
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Yes, yes, it's not a bright yellow though, it's kind
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of a mustard yellow. Would you call that?
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Sure? I don't know.
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It was hard to tear myself away from the neighborhood
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drama that's shaping up in.
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Our You have been tuned in, you know.
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I love a good subdivision drama thing, and this one's
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pretty interesting.
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Normally it's pretty boring around here. We all kind of
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keep to ourselves. We all do our own thing.
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I am a little worried, though, do you think anybody
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in our subdivision listens to us?
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I mean, you're not going to say anything that's not true?
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That's true. I'm not going to name names either. Well,
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but our subdivision it's kind of out in the country.
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It's a subdivision, but it's surrounded by farmland and woods.
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But I wouldn't call it a country subdivision because we
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have rules and you have to adhere the rules.
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Right. Yes, it is a traditional subdivision.
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With an HOA and it's a nice subdivision and everyone like,
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you have to treat your grass chemically or people will
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be angry with you.
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Yes, exactly what we.
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Have hero dandelions are encouraged, right.
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But we have coyotes in the neighborhood. That's part of
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what you get when you live out in the middle
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of kind of farmland and stuff. We hear them at night.
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That's kind of spooky, like they make really kind of
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scary noises.
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It does sound like a Disney movie sometimes, like the
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bad parts of a Disney movie. Yeah, I did read today.
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I was doing a little bit of research. There are
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eighty three counties in Michigan, and all eighty three counties
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have coyotes.
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Yeah, and we've had them at other places we've lived
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as well.
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But they're louder here, I think, Yeah.
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They really are, and so our HOA sent out an
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email a week ago or so saying they were going
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to hire a company to come in and try to
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trap them and remove them humanly.
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I did not get that email to do.
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Yeah, I got the email. But then today someone saw
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like someone was out and they shot. That's a scandal
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like in our like in our neighborhood, close to houses,
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and I think it was the whatever company they hired
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came and actually shot a coyote and the person confronted
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them and they said, yeah, we're shooting the coyotes and
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if we find the little the pups, we're going to
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shoot them too, And so people were pretty outraged on Facebook.
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I'm outraged.
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And then our next door neighbor, who is the president
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of the HOA, he deleted the poets from Facebook and
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he kicked the people out of the group. But somebody
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else was also an admin of the group and screenshot
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and the fact that he kicked these people out.
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I'm very grateful that they did.
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I know they brought receipts to it. So now everybody's
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up in arms. They're calling for him to be recalled
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as the as the HOA president, and I'm waiting for
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his response. But it hasn't come yet.
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We will keep you updated, definitely by the end of
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the episode. We all haven't updated, but it's been several
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hours since you sent me the screen shots, and so
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I don't I would think that he would have responded.
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He's the kind of guy that would definitely respond right away,
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and he is our next door neighbor. I feel like
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we don't know them well. They seem like nice enough people,
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and like we were talking about earlier, I don't want
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to be the president of the HOA same, yeah, but
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I don't love the thought of things being shot in
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our subdivision either. And what time did this happen? Were
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there kids around? You know? Did kids waiting for the
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bus have to see that or you know?
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Well, that's an issue, But the bigger shoot to me
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is like you told people you were going to do
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this and then you were going to get rid of them,
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And the fact that you're kicking people off the Facebook group,
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I'm not sure how you defend that. So we will
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break in if we have any breaking news on this topic.
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But onto better things. I have a snack for you.
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Wait, didn't you say that there was like a picture
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of someone there was a video a video of someone
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disposing of one of them.
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They were dragging the dead coyote through this through the brush.
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That's really disturbing.
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Yeah, but let's let's have a snack. Okay. I went
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to the gas station and I got gas station snacks,
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and you seem really exciting.
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So you did get me a soda, which was really
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nice because I have been cutting down on my soda.
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That's right, part of our union agreement. But it turns
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out the Dorito's people and the Ruffles people have gone
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a little bit nuts and they are doing a flavor swap.
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So there are Doritos that are traditional Ruffles flavor and
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sour cream, and there are Ruffles that our traditional Dorito's
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flavor of cool ranch. So that's going to be pretty crazy.
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And then I also got you a Reese's cream egg
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because it is almost Easter.
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So wow, you spoil me. I sure do want to
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give them a tryal, I offered to make a homemade
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treat today and you said, no, no, no, there's.
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Nothing better than a good gas station treat. All right,
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let's do it.
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All right?
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What did you think about that crazy flavor swap?
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It was very strange experience.
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It was kind of strange.
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The Dorito's to me tasted just like doritos, yes, tasting
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cheddar and sour cream, and I don't there must maybe
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there's a psychological term for that, but I just tasted
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like a dorito. To me, it was good, fine. And
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also with the ruffles, I don't know what that flavor was,
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but again it didn't taste like a cool ranch.
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Yeah I didn't. I didn't really care for the ruffles.
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I don't love cheddar and sour cream flavor, and I
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felt like that that's what the ruffles taste. I don't know,
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but ruffles are probably my favorite package, like potato chip,
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other than like you know, the local Michigan rans we have.
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I think the Doritos and ruffles people should go back
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in their own corners and do their own thing.
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I agree. I did not take a bite of the
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Reese's egg because I there's although that's too many slavers,
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and I think it would taste really bad.
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I chose it specifically to pair well, well, you said.
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I got this for you, and then you proceeded to
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take a big bite of it. I was like, I
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thought that was a gift.
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Well it was, but I had to at least try it.
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Well, what did you think it was? It good?
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It was good. Yeah, it wasn't really any better than
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traditional Reesa's egg, but yeah, it was good.
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You didn't really describe it. It's not like the it's like.
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It looks like a Cadbury egg, Yeah, exactly, And it's
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like the peanut butter in the mill is a little creamier,
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but it's not that dramatically different.
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Should we get back to the case.
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Sure, would you like to give us a recap of
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part one?
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Absolutely? In part one, we met Ted Ammon, a Pittsburgh
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born overachiever who climbed from international banking to the highest
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levels of Wall Street, passing both the English and New
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York bar exams without a law degree, and eventually joining
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the legendary firm KKR, where he helped engineer the thirty
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one billion takeover of r JR Nabisco, one of the
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largest leveraged bioutes in history. Jennerosa Rand had a much
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more turbulent beginning. Abandoned, passed between families, unmolested as a child,
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she remade herself through sheer will, moving to New York
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and building a career in real estate and design. When
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she and Ted met in nineteen eighty three. The attraction
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was immediate. They married in nineteen eighty six, adopted twins
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from Ukraine, and became one of Manhattan's most prominent power couples.
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But wealth didn't bring peace. Generosa grew increasingly volatile and controlling,
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while Ted quietly began an affair with a colleague named
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Lori Finkel, who bore him a son. I thought you
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said that wasn't You aren't sure if that happened or not.
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You're correct, she did have a son, but it's not
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one hundred percent confirmed whether it was his or not.
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When Generosa discovered he had consulted a divorce lawyer, she
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launched an all out war, filing for divorce, demanding millions,
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turning the children against their father, and taking up with
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a rough edged electrician named Danny Pelosi. Danny, broken, desperate,
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was happy to play along. We left off with a
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divorce growing uglier by the day, Danny installing secret cameras
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throughout Ted's East Hampton home, and a situation about to
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turn dangerous.
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Anything that I missed in that recap that we should
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talk about, well.
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Ted had cut Generosa off from any funding. That's right,
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and she had been spending at least one hundred thousand
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dollars a month on hotels and other things.
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Right, yeah, she was living it up, trying to establish
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this high standard of living so that a judge would
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rule in her favor when it came down to it.
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She had a whole staff of people working for her show,
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like a chauffeur and a chef cook, and she was
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generously paying them to inflate her monthly expenses.
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Exactly outside of a family court hearing. In August two
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thousand and one, Danny pulled Ted aside and said something
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that Ted couldn't quite let go of. Danny told him
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not to think he was the only one with money
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or the only one who knew people. Danny knew people too.
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He dropped an Italian family name into the conversation. He
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never said the word mafia, and he never made a
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direct threat, but Ted heard it as one. Ted's sister
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and his business partner again urged him to hire a bodyguard,
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but again he refused. He told them that it would
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be irrational for Generosa and Danny to harm him. They
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would be the only suspects hurting him would accomplish the
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exact opposite of what they wanted. The logic seemed sound.
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Ted Ammon was a rational man, and he kept applying
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rational thinking to an increasingly irrational situation. The financial pressure
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on Generosa was ramping up. She had been quietly hitting
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up friends for loans with little success. She approached one
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friend and asked for help. The friend assumed she needed
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some cash to cover bills, maybe a few thousand dollars.
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How much the friend asked? Ten million dollars, Generosa said
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the friend had no idea what to say. Say anyone
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ever hit you up for over a.
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Million, I mean, I think everyone would know better.
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Ted made his first formal divorce settlement offer ten million
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in cash plus the townhouse that Generosa had been renovating,
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a property worth around eight million. He would cover all
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expenses for the children.
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You had said the last episode. At the peak of
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Ted's wealth, I think he was worth four hundred million dollars,
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and at this point he was worth like two hundred million.
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I think when all was said and done, at the
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time of his death he was worth about ninety million,
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So his net worth had dropped pretty significantly from the
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four hundred million which was at its peak.
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So he offered her ten million, and ten million adjusted
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for inflation is about eighteen point five million today, so
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that sounds like a pretty decent amount of money.
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Well ten million plus us the eight million dollars town house,
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so really even even more than that.
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But the townhouse wasn't finished yet, was it.
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It wasn't finished, but it was worth eight millions.
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So that's where she had planned on moving with the kids.
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Yeah, she was turning it into a Jetson's themed that's right,
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I forgot townhouse. Yeah. When Danny heard the terms that
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Ted had offered, he thought it sounded like winning the lottery.
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He urged Generosa to take it, but she said it
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was an insult. Ted was denying her the London flat,