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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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And if there's one thing we've learned in over twenty years.
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Of marriage, some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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And some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to love, Mary Kill.
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How do you Tina?
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Hey?
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Rich?
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How are you today?
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Great? How are you?
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I'm okay.
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I'm a little bit sad. At the end of part
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one of this episode, we talked about the Lions, and
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I was really excited about the Lions game, which was
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last night. Yeah, and they lost.
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It was a big disappointment.
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It was kind of a huge surprise.
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It was I mean, you know, last year the Lions
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exceeded expectations. They went much farther than anyone thought. But
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this year everyone thought they were going to go all
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the way and not everyone everyone ever, So for them
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to lose in their first playoff game was a big disappointment.
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But that's okay.
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I'm gonna move on and I'll be okay.
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Who's the Lion's quarterback Jared Goss? Maybe he should try
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to steal Taylor Swift from Travis Kelsey because I think
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she's like a good luck charge. She seems to be right,
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so I should you know.
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Yeah, it's a great idea.
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Work on that, all right.
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I think he has a.
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Sense some shirtless pics of Jared got to Taylor's.
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Is not sure how Jared Goff's current girlfriend or maybe
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wife would feel about that, but yeah.
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You don't know Jared Goss's marital it's a shocked I.
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Know that is shocking.
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The other thing is, as you know, I'm flying to
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Paris tonight, and you know how I get on days
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that i'm having before I have a big flight, especially
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like to Europe or something like that, I just get antsy.
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I can't sit still, I can't concentrate on it.
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And you like to leave for the airport at least
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six hours early.
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Kind of why I leave earlier is because I just
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am antsy and I just want.
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To get on with it.
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I understand.
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Other than that, I'm doing great.
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Well on your trip to Paris is kind of it's
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kind of a quick trip. Really, yeah, I'm only going
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to be I really do feel empathy for you because
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you get there and you're going to be exhausted because
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you don't sleep on planes, and then you're expected to
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perform and yeah, you only have a couple of well
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you have more than a couple of days. But yeah,
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by the time you are acclimated, you're going to have
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to come home.
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Yeah, I really have two days in the office and
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that's it. So it's yeah, it's a little stressful, but
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I'll get through it.
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Oh, you'll make the most of it, and hopefully you'll
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bring home some yummy Parisian.
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I don't know if I will this time. I'm not
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gonna have much time, So just prepare yourself.
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All right, I'll prepare myself. I'll just go get some
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Costco with songs.
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There you go.
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I did make you a yummy treat today, though, yummy
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another judge of that. Have you ever heard of coolachism?
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Yes, yes I have.
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Well, I made colachis for you.
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Wow, you're such a star, you know.
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I'd like to.
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I like to do it up if I can. Then
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I had a little time, so I did. But if
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you're not familiar with Colachi's, they are a beloved breakfast
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staple in Texas. They're kind of like a pastry. You
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can actually fill it with fruit or sausage or cheese.
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I did fruit.
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I've got a blueberry kolachi and raspberry kolachi.
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So yeah, they're originally.
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From Nancy sirch.
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Czecho, Slovakia or check the Czech Republic, I guess. But anyway,
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here's your here's your COLACHIESE.
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Wow, enjoy them?
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It was like amazing.
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Did you enjoy your kolachi?
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I truly did. That was really delicious. I thought they
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were cookies when you said colachia, I thought that was
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like your little jam filled cookie. But this is like
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the size of like a bagel, so it's quite an
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undertaking you.
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I feel like they might be bigger than they're supposed
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to be, like wider maybe the pictures I saw. I've
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never seen one in real life, but the pictures I
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saw they look a little more compact. And I think
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the fruit to bread ratio is a little bit low.
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I think it could.
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It took me a while to get to the jam.
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Yeah yeah.
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But other than that, I think they are really good.
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Yeah.
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I hadn't eaten yet today, and that's good because it was.
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I mean, yeah, it's pretty. It's a filling snap. Thank
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you very much. I would give it a nine out
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of ten.
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Nine.
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If you would have used the cream cheese, it probably
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would have been a ten out of ten.
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Yeah, I would give it a nine out of ten.
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Good for you. I mean, that's that's a big undertaking.
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That's like dough.
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And I made the dough last night and it's kind
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of just like bread dough. And it wasn't that hard.
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It was a little bit involved kind of assembling.
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The whole thing.
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But thank you, delicious, You're welcome. Well, should we continue
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on with the story of Joan Robinson Hill and John Hill.
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Absolutely, But before we start, let me just mention that
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I looked up the house on Zillow last night and
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the houses for your sale, which is kind of wild.
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So we're going to buy it and then we're gonna
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air five million.
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Oh so perfect.
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It's a little outside of our budget, but we can
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airbnb it. I love Mary Kill.
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Oh my god, that's a great idea.
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Yeah, I have a great idea.
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Sure we would earn our money back.
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Yeah, just a couple of months. Have a Murder Mystery
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theme party in the music room.
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Yeah. But I hope you put the link to the
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house on the show notes so everyone can see it,
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because it's it's a very interesting property. A house is
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it's beautiful, but it also has you know, like the
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checkerboard tile.
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It's a little dated our style exactly, well.
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Right, I mean our start was like like pottery barn
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and this is more like, Yeah, it's very cool. Definitely
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you should go look at that. And I also just
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googled a picture of Joan and John, and I mean
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they are a beautiful couple. Beautiful couple.
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Would you like to give us a recap of part one?
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Absolutely? Joan Robinson was the daughter of a wealthy Texas
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oil man, Ash Robinson. Ash was very involved in his
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daughter's life, even moving to be close to her while
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she was in college and when she got married. Right
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Joan met and married John Hill, who was studying to
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be a plastic surgeon. They were a beautiful couple and
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darlings of Houston's high society, but they were also opposites.
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Joan loved her horses, she liked to swear, and she
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enjoyed going to parties. John was religious, who loved his
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mother and loved to play and listened to music obsessively.
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John had an affair with a woman named Anne Kirth,
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but was coerced to return to his marriage by Joan's dad,
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but he continued the affair. In March nineteen sixty nine,
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Joan suddenly got very ill. When we left off at
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the end of part one, John had finally decided to
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take Joan to the hospital, although she should have gone
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to the hospital much much sooner.
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For sure.
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John said that he had arranged for Joan to be
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treated at Sharpstown Hospital, claiming that she would be treated
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like a queen there. He decided to drive Joan himself
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rather than calling an ambulance. The decision to take her
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to Sharpstown was puzzling. It was a small suburban hospital
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without an emergency room or an intensive care unit, a
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far cross from the world class facilities available at the
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Texas Medical Center, which was actually closer to the Hill Mansion.
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But John insisted that Joan would receive special care at Sharpstown,
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and he was a doctor, right, He knew doctors all
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over the place, so everyone just trusted him. I don't know, No,
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I don't either. The drive there was agonizingly slow. Joan
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lay in the back seat, weak and barely conscious, while
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her mom, Rhea, sat in the front growing increasingly anxious.
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Quote he drove like a snail. Rhea later recalled, I
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felt like we were never going to get there. It
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was almost as if he didn't want us to. At
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one point, Joan's voice broke through the tense silence. Mother,
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I'm blind, I can't see you, she said. Rhea turned
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to her daughter in alarm, but John dismissed the comment
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as a blackout, showing little concern. When they finally arrived
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at Sharpstown Hospital, it became evident that John's so called
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arrangements were dubious at best. No one seemed to know
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that Joan was coming. A nurse eventually assisted Joan into
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a wheelchair and took her to a private room. John
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had contacted doctor Walter Burtonoe, an internal medicine specialist who
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practiced at Sharpstown. Doctor Burtonou was surprised by the call.
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He had never treated Joan before and had only met
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her briefly at social events. When Burtno asked him why,
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John explained that Joan disliked doctors, but had expressed favorable
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opinions about Burtono in the past. Again, Burtonou was a
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little confused since he really hadn't spent much time with Joan.
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John described Joan's symptoms diarrhea, vomiting, and nausea, making the
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situation sound routine. As a result, Doctor Burtonoe didn't initially
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sense the urgency. However, when a nurse checked Joan's blood
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pressure and found it dangerously low at sixty over forty,
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she immediately called doctor Burtnoe, who was just a block away.
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He rushed over to the hospital. Doctor Burtonou ordered IV
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fluids to stabilize Joan's blood pressure, initially suspecting food poisoning
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as a possible cause. He also requested ur analysis and
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stool cultures. But to say, despite the ivy fluids, Joane's
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blood pressure remained perilously low, prompting doctor Burtneau to wonder
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if Joan was suffering from septic shock due to a
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massive bacterial infection. By late afternoon, a nurse noted that
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Joan wasn't producing any urine, an alarming sign of potential
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kidney failure. That evening, Ash arrived to see his daughter.
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Despite her weakened state, Joan was lucid and managed a
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faint smile as ashe promised to fill her hospital room
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with yellow roses the next day to cheer her up.
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That would be nice, she whispered. Ash kissed Joan good night,
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not knowing that it would be the last time he
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would ever see her. By eight PM, Joan's condition had
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taken a dire turn. A renal specialist was called in
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and quickly confirmed severe kidney failure. The medical team debated
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transferring her to a hospital across town that had a
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dialysis machine, but Joan was deemed too critically ill to
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survive the journey. Instead, they opted for peritoneal dialysis, a
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procedure less invasive than hemodialysis but still a risk each
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other choice given her fragile state.
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So John knew this smaller hospital didn't have the appropriate
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facilities to really take care of her.
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I'm sure he must have. I mean, if you're a doctor,
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you make your rounds in multiple hospitals. I'm sure he
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was familiar with all the hospitals in the area. The
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doctors needed John's consent to proceed with the peritoneal dialysis,
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but he was nowhere to be found. Although he had
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visited Joan a few times earlier in the day, by
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this point he had returned home. The hospital called him
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at nine to fifteen PM, secured his verbal approval for
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the procedure, and informed him of the urgency. Despite this,
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John didn't arrive at the hospital until nearly eleven pm.
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What a guy.
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Huh, that's horrible. Why would he even leave her?
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I know exactly.
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When he finally walked into Joan's room, she was lucid
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but terrified. Please John, don't leave me, she begged. He
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pulled a chair to her bedside and promised to stay.
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By twelve thirty am, there was a glimmer of hope.
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Joan's condition appeared to stabilize slightly. John decided to step
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out and rest on a couch in the patient records
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room down the hall. At two thirty am, everything unraveled.
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Joanes's vital signs plummeted, signaling sudden heart failure. A nurse