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Hi.
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I'm Tina and I'm Rich. And if there's one thing
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we've learned in over twenty years of marriage.
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It's that some days you'll feel like killing your wife, and.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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Welcome to love, Mary Kill, Hey Rich, Hey Tina.
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How are you.
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I'm doing great? How are you?
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I'm great. I'm a woman at Christmas time, so I
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am calm and cool.
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Not much going on in your life, not much to do, Yeah, but.
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I wouldn't say bored.
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Yeah.
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Panic is just slowly starting to see you seep into myself.
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We haven't even gotten a Christmas tree, I know, and
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it's December seventh's I don't know.
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Yeah, I guess.
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Well this is going to be released you know what.
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Day, December sixteenth.
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Well, by then we will have a Christmas tree. Am
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my shopping. I'll probably be all done and wrapped and
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would be bacon cookies, seeing Christmas carols in the kitchen and.
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The beautiful vision you paint. I can't wait.
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It's going to be great. We'll be going to be
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built a snowman in the front yard. Great, it's going
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to be like a Norman rock Well seen here.
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Yeah, I can't wait for that. I'm looking forward to it.
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So our lovely listener friend, our dear friend Yarna from Finland,
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sent us a box of snacks.
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I am so excited about this.
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And it's been sitting in our kitchen counter for a
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few weeks while. So, yeah, we had a little break
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in our recording schedule.
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I skipped breakfast this morning, so I'm actually really hungry
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and really have been looking forward to this awesome, awesome
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I didn't. I didn't one hundred percent skip breakfast. I
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had an Zac biscuit, but that's all I had.
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You really liked those, didn't you? I mean we all did.
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The whole family was a big fan of those.
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Yeah they're really good.
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Yeah they were great. Was it harder this morning the
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Anzac biscuit?
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No, it was still pretty chewy.
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All right, So in this box we have Okay, so
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I don't know how to say these things, so please
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please give me some grace. But yeah, I'm not even
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gonna try. This looks like it's some sort of a granola,
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a granola type biscuit. Actually perfect for breakfast. It looks
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like the Aussi bites that you eat for breakfast. Sometimes
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they're blueberry flavored. Yeah here you say it.
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Do you think Do you think I speak Finnish? I
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don't speak Finish.
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So we have granola bites and then these look really yummy.
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Some these actually have what they are in English rye
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crisps with sweet chili. It's like a little crispy, kind
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of big Oldish type bite.
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Interesting.
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It looks really good, smells really good too, Okay. And
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then you're gonna like this a box of milk chocolate. Okay,
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I can't say that name, but that looks really yummy.
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And this one, I'm not so sure about it. It
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looks like it's Finnish licorice Christmas mix. Yeah, I think
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that part of the.
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World, like, yeah, people love licorice. Oh yeah, yeah, I'm
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not a licorice fan, but I'm going to try it.
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I'm going to Okay, I'm.
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Going to do it.
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We'll be right back. How fun is it to eat
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international snacks?
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I love it? Yeah, it's so fun.
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I love it so much too. Thank you so much, Yarna.
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She is the sweetest person. It's one of our biggest supporters.
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So we love you so much and we really appreciate
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you taking the effort for us. Yeah, but that said.
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I didn't care for the licorice, but I didn't hate
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it as much as I thought I would hate it.
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Okay, I feel badly, but I did not even try it.
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I am really not very happy with you about it.
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I know you're disappointed me. I just I can't. I
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really just do not like it at all, So I
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apologize for that. I'm sure I think our son loves
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black lid.
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Oh yeah, he'll probably like it.
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Yeah, he'll love it.
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Yeah.
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Everything else, though, I really I thought was amazing. I
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loved it.
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I thought the blueberry granola thing was good, wasn't I
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didn't love it. I liked it. Probably give it a six.
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Oh, i'd give it an eight.
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Is good. The chili, the rye crisps with sweet chili,
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I really like that.
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Those are those are delicious. I would buy those definitely.
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Yeah, very unique and interesting. And the chocolate was, yeah,
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it was amazing.
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I would give the rye crisp chilies. I would give
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those a ten out of ten. I love a crispy
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It's super crispy, but not like too crispy. And the
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chocolate was really delicious and creamy, and uh, yeah.
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Ten out of ten for that too, and I'm going
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to give the liquorice it too, because it was quite
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as bad as I thought it was.
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Oh wow, Okay, maybe I'll try it later, but.
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Oh okay, at least I didn't. It's okay, very disappointed,
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but it's okay.
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Can you imagine how lovely Finland is this time of year?
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But it's just beautiful.
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I know, it's kind of what I picture when I
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picture Christmas is Finland and reindeer. And I don't know,
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I don't know anything about Finland, but I'm sure it's beautiful.
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There's a lot of hooga.
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Yes exactly.
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I should have checked with Yarda before. We were just
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talking about whether or not Finland is considered a Scandinavian country,
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and apparently it isn't officially not.
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Part of the Scandinavian peninsula, but it's sometimes considered a
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Scandinavian country nor a country.
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Nice who good type lights?
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Yes, I'm sure they do.
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Are you ready for part two?
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I am really ready. I'm really anxious to find out
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what happens here, and I really hope that there is
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justice served, but I'm not feeling that confident.
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Would you like to give us a summary?
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I would in January nineteen eighty two, Lynette Dawson, a
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loving wife and mother, vanished from the suburbs of Sydney, Australia.
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Her husband, Chris Dawson, a former professional rugby player and
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local celebrity, insisted that she left voluntarily. Lynn's family and
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friends initially believed his story, but as the years passed
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with no contact from Lynn, their suspicions of foul play grew.
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The police barely investigated Lynn's disappearance. They believed that she
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had left voluntarily. Lynn's friends and family knew that was impossible.
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She'd never leave her husband or daughters. Two days after
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her disappearance, Chris moved his seventeen year old girlfriend, Joanne
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into his house. They were married two years later, but
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soon Chris became controlling and abusive to his new wife.
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I forgot to mention this during part one, but Joanne
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was referred to as j c or Ab in court
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documents because she was a miner at the time. Also,
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if you listen to the Teacher's Pet podcast, Joanne is
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referred to as jac or as Jenny in Headley's book,
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and Sharon is called Amy. I think he changed a
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lot of names, Okay, and I didn't because it's been
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so long, and if you were in Australia, you know
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who these people are. You know these are their real names.
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Right.
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Today's episode discusses sensitive topics including domestic violence, grooming, and
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the sexual abuse of minors. These subjects maybe distressing for
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some listeners, Please listen with care. In nineteen ninety, after
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six years of marriage, any love that had existed between
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Joanne and Chris had long since evaporated. As Joanne grew older,
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she came to understand that Chris had begun grooming her
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when she was just fifteen years old. Their toxic relationship,
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built on manipulation and deception, became increasingly volatile. Over time.
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Chris's behavior turned more controlling and abusive, leaving Joanne in
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constant fear for her safety, and one terrifying incident, during
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a heated argument, Chris punched the windshield of their car
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with such startling force that it cracked.
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You would have to punch a windshield really, really hard
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to make it crack, and I can't imagine what that
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would do to your fist either.
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Began bringing school age girls around to their home to
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swim in their pool, repeating the cycle Joanne was afraid
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she was going to end up like Lynne. She longed
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for freedom and peace for herself and her daughter. After
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wasting years of her youth in a dysfunctional marriage. She
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was scared to leave Chris. She'd only held one part
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time job in her life during high school and had
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no money of her own. She tried to squirrel a
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little money away from the small allowance that Chris gave her.
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On February first, nineteen ninety, twenty six year old Joanne
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left Chris with five year old Kristen in tow and
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never looked back. Twelve year old Channel and ten year
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old Sharon were again motherless, not that Joanne had been
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much of a mother to them. Chris was heartbroken and
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tried to win her back, but she was done. Although
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the situation was an ideal, she and Kristin moved in
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with her mother, but at least she was out of
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Chris's grasp. It was important to Joanne to make amends
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with Lynde's family. She asked a musual friend to arrange
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a meeting. Helena at first refused. Helena, being Lynn's mom,
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she was holding a grudge against Joanne for not allowing
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her to see her granddaughters, but eventually her family talked
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her into it by reminding her that she might have
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important information to share with them. The meeting was cordial.
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Joanne felt as if a weight had been lifted from
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her after the hour's long meeting. It was only after
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this meeting with Joanne that Helena began to question Chris.
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So this is years later, and Helena had still really
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held out hope prized to hear that it was an
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important step in Joanne's healing process to apologize to the
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Simms family. Soon, Joanne went to the police to tell
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them that they should investigate Chris Dawson for Lynne's murder,
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and they might want to begin by digging up the
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ground around the pool at to Gilwinga Drive. Shortly after
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Joanne left, Chris met his third wife, a teacher named Sue.
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They were married two years later in Fiji. Sue taught
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science at Saint Brendan's Catholic Boys School, while Chris continued
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to teach pe at Saint Ursula's Girls College. Sue had
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young twins, a boy and a girl. It's unclear of
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Chris formally adopted them, but they used the surname Dawson
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in school.
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I'm surprised he would marry someone who was sounds like
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she was not. I don't know how much white is young,
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but she was a teacher, so she wasn't like still
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in school.
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Yeah, I think she was younger than him, but I'm
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not sure how much younger. Prompted by the information that
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Joanne had shared with them, finally, on January fifteenth, nineteen
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ninety one, the New South Wales Police traveled to Queensland
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and paid a visit to Chris Dawson. During the interview,
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he claimed that Joanne was trying to slander him because
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of an upcoming custody hearing. Chris maintained that January ninth,
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nineteen eighty two, was the last time that he saw Lynn.
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He claimed that they had attended marriage counseling, then came
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home and had a romantic evening together. The next morning,
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January ninth, Chris dropped Lyn off at the bus station
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in Mona Vale at seven a m. And he said
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that is the last time that he saw her. She
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was going to do some Christmas returns and later she
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was going to meet Chris, the children and Helena at
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the baths then called him at the baths on January ninth,
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and allegedly three more times over the week, and that
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was the last time he ever heard from her. Barbara Cruz,
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Lynn's friend and boss, said quote, I think what happened
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with them. He's a very handsome man. Both the Dawson
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boys were very handsome boys. Well they were twins, they
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were models, and she was a very attractive girl when
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they married. So when this is something like twelve years later,
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she'd gotten a little bigger. She still had a gorgeous smile,
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and it was still I would say, a lovely girl,
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but wasn't model material. And I think maybe Chris was
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about the looks at that stage. It should have been
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a whole lot more. She'd become a mum and not
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the model wife that maybe he still wanted. Detective Damien
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Lune was a scientist Lindn's case in nineteen ninety eight.
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The case had gone cold when Damien was handed Lynd's
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case file. If you could call it a file, it
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contained only one piece of hate. The rest of the