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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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If there's one thing we've learned in over twenty years
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of marriage.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your husband, and.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to Love Mary Kill.
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Hey Tina, Hey Rich. How are you today?
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I'm pretty good? How are you?
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I am doing great?
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Great.
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We have an audience for our recording today.
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We have a very special mess.
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We have our little friend Clover in here. She is
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really excited to hear about this case.
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Well, I know that there's a trigger warning coming up,
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so it'll make sure that she heeds that warning.
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Yeah, definitely. March Madness is here. Do you know what
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that means?
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There's a bunch of insane leprechauns running around.
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It does mean that, But it also means that I
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have created our very own bracket challenge. I called it
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Love Mary Madness, and I want to invite all of
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our listeners to join. Make their picks, see how their
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picks stack up against hours.
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Okay, and oh I have to do a bracket.
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You have to do a bracket as well.
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Historically I'm not great at it.
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Well, you know, there's a lot of luck involved, so
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you never know it's all for fun, but we are
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going to put up some prizes. The overall winner will
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take home a one hundred dollars gift card.
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Oh, I thought you were going to say a date
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with Rich.
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No, but we have also fifty dollars gift cards for
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the top men's and women's brackets, and there will even
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be a consolation prize. If you finish dead last will
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give you a prize as well.
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So I have a chance.
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You have a chance the ultimate prize though, if anybody
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gets a perfect bracket. I haven't talked to you about
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this yet, but if anyone gets a perfect bracket, we
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will personally show up on your doorstep and bring you snacks.
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Oh how great is that?
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That's great?
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So you can get all the details and sign up
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now at Madness dot love mary dot com. Okay, that's
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Madness dot lovemarykill dot com. Registration closes March eighteenth, so
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don't delay.
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Okay, So I told Rich that no one was going
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to sign up, So prove me wrong and sign up
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and make Rich's day.
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Are you ready for a snack?
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Yes? Because I know that it's a really nice box.
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That are very sweet, lovely kind friend, Carla sent who
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was one of our biggest supporters and just a gem
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of a person she is.
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And Carla went over and above the call of duty here,
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so she sent a large box. She went to BUCkies,
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which we've talked about many times on here, which we've
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never been to because we don't have the Shison too.
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We are going to it at some point, But Carla
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went to Bucky's and she just went crazy. She bought
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like all kinds of stuff and sent it along. So
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I'm probably not going to list everything that's in this
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box because there is a lot. But there are beaver nuggets,
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of course, sea salted carmel, also cinnamon beaver nuggets, which
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I don't think we've had before, right I don't.
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I'm excited, No, I don't think we have.
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I'm excited about that. There's also some snack stick spites, hallapenno,
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honey flavor, oh, some cherry maple beef jerky, some praline peacans,
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a Bucky Bar, milk chocolate, and a dark chocolate Wow.
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But then there's she also sent all kinds of non
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food items too, like this nice BUCkies.
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Oh my god, Oh that's so cute, and.
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A nice Bucky's towel and a little Old Bucky's mascot.
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There's there's more. So thank you so much, Carla. It
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is just so nice of you. We really appreciate it.
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You know. It's really hard for me not to send,
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like everyone who sends something to us back a gift,
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because that's just how I operate. So Carla, thank you
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so much. She's just the sweetest and she sends me
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funny memes all the time and I adore her. So
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thank you so much, Carla.
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Yeah, we appreciate it. Well, why don't we try it
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to try a couple of I really want to try
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the cinnamon Beefer nuggets and then maybe we should try
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the Hallapenno honey snack stick spites. Okay, all right, let's
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do it. What did you think those were.
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Really good and together? I thought they were really yummy together.
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It's a good combination.
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Yeah, it really was.
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The snack snick snack stiff bites jalapeno honey is an
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interesting flavor combination. I love both of those things, but
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I wouldn't have expected them to go together that well.
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But they really are good together. And the cinnamon Beaver.
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Dugget has a chaser. Yeah, really good.
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Yeah, really good. Thanks again, Thanks Carla. Shall we get
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to part two of the Michelle and Jonathan Nice Story?
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Absolutely.
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I do have a couple of trigger warnings. First of all,
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this episode does contain discussions of domestic violence and homicide,
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which may be distressing for some listeners. Also, at the
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very end of the episode, we have a segment where
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we talk about cruelty to animals, So please listen with care.
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Would you like to give us a recap of part
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I'm going.
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To say, can I give a recap of Part one?
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I knew you wanted to.
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In part one, we met doctor Jonathan Nice, a brilliant
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six foot for molecular biologist who believed he was on
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the verge of curing the world's asthma. In nineteen ninety,
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he traveled to the Philippines and married twenty year old
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Michele Riviera after using whiteout to lie about his age
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on their marriage license. For over a decade, they lived
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out a version of the American dream, a twenty one
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room mansion in New Jersey, three children, and a one
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hundred million dollar pharmaceutical deal. But as Jonathan's ego grew,
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his world began to collapse. He lost his company, his
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massive payday, and finally his grip on Michelle. After discovering
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Jonathan had lied about his age for years, Michele's resentment
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turned into a secret life of her own. She began
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a clandestine affair with a local gardener named Enio, meeting
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him in seedy motels to escape the fortress that Jonathan
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had built for her. By the summer of two thousand three,
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the gentle Giant was a man on the end edge,
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Unemployed and increasingly paranoid. Jonathan had began tracking Michelle's every move,
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even writing dark emotional poetry about her betrayal. The stage
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was set for a collision between Jonathan's obsession with control
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and Michelle's desperate need for freedom.
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One thing to point out is that Michelle had a
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fairly large family back in the Philippines, and she sent
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money to them regularly.
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She still had ties to her family, strong ties for
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her family.
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Yeah, and Jonathan often took credit for basically saving them,
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bringing them out of poverty, but it was really unclear
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whether it was Jonathan that was taking the initiative to
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send the money or whether it was Michelle.
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In one word, thing, Jonathan was fired from his job
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by the board, right, that's right.
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It was his company, but he basically kept bringing in
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new venture capitalists to keep the company afloat, and they
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finally realized this guy's a liability. He's a brilliant scientist,
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but not a good businessman, and they ended up shelving
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the rug that he had spent his time researching on,
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saying that it wasn't really that effective.
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Well, and you've referred to him as brilliant several times,
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but really his brilliance I think is questionable because the
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drug that he spent twenty years developing was shelved.
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Yeah, that's true. I think he did have I think
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he was fairly brilliant in some ways, Like he did
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develop a drug that could have been used for some
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childhood leukemia sufferers, but it didn't get picked up because
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the economics weren't that great. But it is hard to
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tell whether he was truly brilliant or whether he was
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a little bit more of a fraud maybe.
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Well we talked about this a little bit in episode one,
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but just how the pharmaceutical industry works and if something
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shows even mild potential, a lot of times it gets
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so much money through it at it.
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People throw money at it, but it also takes years
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to figure out whether it really is successful or not.
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In July two thousand and three, not long after he
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discovered Michelle's affair, Jonathan dropped a bombshell on his wife.
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He told her that he had just received a call
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from a man who had played a portion of an
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audio tape of her having sex. Michelle panicked. She first
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claimed that she had gotten a job on a phone
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sex line, but under Jonathan's relentless questioning, the truth finally
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spilled out. She admitted to the affair, though she downplayed
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it as a drunken mistake. Jonathan later claimed that he
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sat with her that afternoon while she called Enyo to
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end it forever, but Jonathan wasn't taking any chances. Two
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weeks later, he left a threat on Enyo's voicemail if
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you put your hands on my wife, you're going to
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be a dead man. The next day, he walked into
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the FBI's West Trenton office with an extraordinary tale. He
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told Special Agent John Mulligan that Enyo, under the alias
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Alexander Castaneda, was extorting him for five hundred thousand dollars
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in exchange for sex tapes. He showed them calls that
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he had received on his cell phone that had come
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from a Shell Station payphone as his proof.
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You had mentioned this a little bit in part one,
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But Enyo was a little bit of a scammer artist himself.
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Yeah, he had three different names that he used. He
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was dodging child support payments, he had different Social Security numbers,
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and he had asked Michelle for money more than once.
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The case was handed over to Detective Daniel McCune of
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the Hopewell Township Police, who interviewed Jonathan and Michelle separately.
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He found Michelle distant and emotionless, a woman clearly trapped
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in a loveless marriage. She admitted to the affair and
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to lending Enyo one thousand dollars, but she looked the
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detective in the eye and denied any knowledge of a
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half million dollar blackmail plot. McCune's professional instincts immediately signaled
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a red flag. Why had Jonathan waited two weeks to
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report a threat to his family and why were there
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no instructions on how to pay the money. When mckune
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pulled the surveillance tapes from the shell Station, he didn't
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see Enyo's truck. He came to the conclusion that Jonathan
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had made up the extortion attempt to drive a wedge
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between Enyo and his wife. Then Jonathan's claims grew more
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or outlandish. He sent a bizarre fax to the detective
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claiming Enyo had tried to hire Michelle to kill him,
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and that mysterious trucks were lurking outside their kitchen window
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at night. Mckune was in disbelief the story was ludicrous.
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He officially shut down the investigation, labeling the extortion allegations unfounded.
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Despite the investigation being shut down, Jonathan sought a restraining
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order against Denio. On August twenty first, the two rivals
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finally stood face to face in a courtroom. The judge,
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sensing the toxic volatility of the triangle, issued a mutual
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restraining order. If Enyo saw Michelle, he was to turn
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the other way for two years. They were legally bound
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to stay apart.
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So Jonathan has not had another job since he was
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fired from his lap.
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No, he had dreams of starting this other company, I
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think it was called Prism Pharmaceutical that he was planning,
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and he wrote a kid's book and he was writing
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poetry and things like that, but at this time point
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he had not had another job.
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As two thousand and three wore on, Jonathan Knys found
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himself caught in a spiral of erratic behavior. He began
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seeing a psychiatrist and was prescribed laurezapam to manage his anxiety,
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but the medication only seemed to heighten his volatility. In
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a moment of raw vulnerability, he broke down in tears
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at his parents' house, telling them about Michelle's betrayal with
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the Gardener. Toward Michelle, he acted with a confusing blend
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of desperation and dominance. He began lavishing her with expensive gifts,
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yet simultaneously moved to choke off her independence. He closed
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their joint bank account and placed her on a meager
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three hundred dollars a month allowance, claiming he wanted her
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to learn to manage finances. To Michelle, it was a
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declaration of war. She called her family in the Philippines,
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telling them the money was stopping and that she wanted
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a divorce from a man who had become obsessively controlling.
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In a last ditch effort to save the marriage, Jonathan
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orchestrated a second honeymoon in Charleston, West Virginia, he visited
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a doctor to obtain a viagraa prescription, determined to physically
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reclaim the intimacy they had lost, but the trip couldn't