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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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And if there's one thing we've learned, and over twenty
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years of marriage, some.
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Days you'll feel like killing your husband and.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to love, Mary.
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Kill, Hey Tina, Hey Rich?
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How are you?
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I've been better? How are you?
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You have been better? I'm doing all right. I'm hanging
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in there, but I feel bad for you.
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How is your vacation? We had two different vacations.
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We kind of did have two different vacations. We just
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got back last night. Yeah, from Maine where we spent
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a week and you spent a lot of it in bed.
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Yeah. I got COVID and you didn't, and neither did
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the kids. So I'm happy to take one for the team.
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And I hope you guys don't get it. But we
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did make the crazy decision to record today, but we
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are as distanced as we can be in this room.
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Yeah. Well, you are a trooper. You win a gold
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star for the day for showing up, so I appreciate it.
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Well, I didn't want to let you down, and I
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know a lot of people look forward to our Monday episodes,
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so I didn't want to leave anyone hanging and our patrons.
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You know, they usually get early access, and I feel
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really bad that they're not getting early access this week
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because we didn't have an episode ready to go, which
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we should have before we left.
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Well, we will talk a little bit more about our
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vacation at the end of the episode, but before we
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get into the episode, I do have a snack for you.
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I ran out to the gas station this morning because
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I know we just got home and we didn't really
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have any.
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No food in the house. I also want to give
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a shout out to Tim, who stayed at the house
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with our cats.
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Yeah.
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Tim doesn't listen to our podcast, I don't think, but
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his mom Asha does, so huge thank you to him
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because we were Cosmo still isn't quite back to himself
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and we were really nervous to leave him. So a
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big thank you to Tim. Yeah, that was super nice
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staying at the house and taking care of the babies.
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Yeah. Do you want to know what snack I brought you? Yes,
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I made you a lobster roll. Oh god, not just kidding.
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I went to the gas station and I bought some popcorn,
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some cheddar cheese popcorn, Cabot brand. Seriously sharp cheddar cheese.
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I want to try it?
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Sure?
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All right? What did you think about the Cabots brand?
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Seriously sharp cheddar popcorn?
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And I'm a big fan of Cabbot cheese in general.
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I think it's good stuff. But that was just kind
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of okay for me. I have not lost my sense
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of smell or taste gratefully, but I have no appetite,
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so that could be part of it.
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I do love it either, I was just sort of
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like it was. The flavor was good.
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But the generally I'm not a big fan of bagged
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popcorn because I like fresh pop popcorn.
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Yeah.
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Well, I'm going to give it a six out of ten.
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What do you think?
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Oh, I'm sure six out of ten. Okay, I think
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I probably would go five at it because it's it's
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just average to me.
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The thing, well, how about we get to today's case
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so we can get you back to bed and resting.
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Okay.
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Mollie Watson, age thirty five, was getting married to the
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love of her life, James Addie, fifty one, and she
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couldn't have been more excited. The two had been dating
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for over six years before they finally got engaged. The
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wedding arrangements were all set for Sunday, April twenty ninth,
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twenty eighteen, at the Stony Creek Hotel in Columbia, Missouri.
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On Friday the twenty seventh, two days before the big day,
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everything was nearly finalized. The final guest list was sent
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to the event coordinator, seating charts were locked in, and
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the caterer was ready with the menu for the event,
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a choice of barbecue or prime rib for dinner and
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fruit cobbler for dessert. Molly had designed and made the
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centerpieces herself, hummingbird candles in a glass hurricane on a
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base of wood. On that Friday, James stopped by the
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venue to drop off some decorations and to make a
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four thousand dollars payment, which nearly finished paying for the
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wedding and the reception. The event coordinator asked James if
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he was getting excited for the wedding. He just said
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that Molly was driving him crazy. Not surprising, though, I'm
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sure a lot of brides to be drive their future
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husbands a little crazy before the big day. In our case,
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of course, but I've heard that that happens.
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I thought I was the calmest bride.
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Ever you were actually, but Mollie would not live to
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see her special day. That Friday night, she was found
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dead on a desolate dirt road in rural Monroe County.
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The investigation into her death would uncover secrets that would
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forever change the lives of everyone in James and Molly's orbit.
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Mollie Watson grew up in Monroe County, Missouri, a rural
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area an hour north of Columbia, about midway between Kansas
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City and Saint Louis, best known as the birthplace of
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Mark Twain. Monroe County was mostly nature, rolling farmland, the
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Mark Twain National Forest, and the Missouri River, which forms
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its eastern boundary, lots of dirt roads, and not many people.
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The entire county has only about nine thousand people, and
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eighteen hundred of them are prisoners in the Moberly Correctional Center,
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which is also the area's biggest employer. Molly's older brother
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Tim described her as his best friend. He said that
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he actually was the one who suggested the name Molly
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to their parents. She was a completely authentic and genuine person,
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if maybe a bit naive and too trusting. It didn't
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matter who she was around, she was just herself, happy, bubbly,
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outgoing and always laughing. But why don't we let Molly
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introduce herself. This is from a video she made in
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twenty seventeen, about a year before her death, for a
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vlog that she started.
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I figured I would just kind of give a little
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bit of background on me, so you kind of get
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to know me. I am thirty four. I work in
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education right now. I have two degrees in socology, a
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bachelor's and a master's. I'm working on a third, not
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a well a third degree second masters in counseling. And
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I am very much a huge geek. I hate being
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called a nerd because, as I have always heard it,
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put nerds know geeks do, so I am very much
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a hands on geek. I like most things geeked them.
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I'm a huge fan of things like let me get this,
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Marvel and is Day for that matter. I love video games.
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I love especially. Two of my favorites are the Legend
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of Zelda franchise and the Metroid franchise. I do like
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to do cosplay. I took about a ten yearish hiatus
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and I'm getting back into it now.
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I am what.
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Is was formerly known as.
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Asperger syndrome.
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It's a form of Now they refer to it as
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high functioning autism. So if I seem awkward in the videos,
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now you know why. So I'll catch you guys later
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and bye.
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Well Molly sounds great, Yeah she does. I didn't know
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the difference between a geek and a nerd.
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I didn't.
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Oh you didn't.
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No, I didn't believe it or not.
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Do you identify as either neither?
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No, I'm a cool guy.
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Oh, okay, you're right right, I'm sorry.
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Molly got married in her early twenties. We don't know
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much about this first marriage other than it ended in
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divorce after a few years. Before the divorce was final,
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in two thousand and seven, Molly met a woman named
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Amber Brady. I should say that she re met Amber
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because they had actually known each other in kindergarten. They
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didn't like each other at that young age, but when
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they ran into each other around two thousand and seven,
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they became friends, and soon that friendship turned to romance
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and love. Amber was also married to a man at
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this time, but both Amber's and Molly's marriages were on
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their way to ending. Dating another woman was a new
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experience for both Molly and Amber. Soon after they started dating,
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Molly found out she was pregnant from her estranged husband.
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She and Amber moved in together. Molly gave birth to
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a baby boy, Declan, who was diagnosed with cerebral palsy,
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and the three became a family. About five years into
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their relationship, Molly got a job at the Moberly Correctional
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Center as a corrections officer. There, she met James Addie,
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who was a lieutenant on the corrections team. Despite the
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age gap of more than fifteen years, James and Molly
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grew close and eventually started an affair. Amber Berg began
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to suspect that something was up, and one day she
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followed Molly to a motel where she caught Molly and
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James during one of their trysts. Amber was heartbroken and
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dumped Molly on the spot. Molly and Decklan moved out
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and back into her parents' home, Molly and her son
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living on one side of the house and her mom
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and dad on the other. She was sad about the
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way things ended with Amber, but she was looking toward
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the future because she was head over heels in love
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with Jim Addie.
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James Addy was born on July fourth, nineteen sixty six,
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which was fitting because he was patriotic and loved his country.
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After high school, he joined the Marines and served during
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Desert Storm. After his military service was complete, he held
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various jobs. He worked as a mechanic and spent some
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time working in a factory before finally getting the job
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at the correctional Center. He was well liked there and
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eventually worked his way up the ranks to become a lieutenant.
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James had been married four times before he and Molly met.
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We don't know anything about his first three marriages, but
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his fourth marriage was to Melanie Shepherd, who became Melanie
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Addie when they got married in nineteen ninety five. James
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and Melanie had two kids together, a boy named Ben,
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followed a few years later by a girl named Emma.
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When Mollie started seeing James, she told her friends that
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he was in the process of getting a divorce from Melanie,
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But when Melanie and James went to get their marriage license,
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he put down his divorce date from Melanie as October
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twenty seventeen, which would mean that he had still been
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married to Melanie for the first five to six years
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of his relationship. With Mollie, but maybe it was a
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situation where they were separated and they just took a
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long time to follow through with the paperwork. As we
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said earlier, Mollie was head over heels for James and
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he was also in love with her. They took trips together,
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one to Cancoon and one to Disney World, and they
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took lots of photos that Mollie would compile into albums.
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There were many pictures of the couple smiling together, swimming
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with dolphins, having the time of their lives. James would
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send Molly cards with romantic notes written inside, like you
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are the love of my life. Molly's nickname for James
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was Sweetness. Well, her name in his phone was beautiful.
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How am I in your phone?
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My beautiful wife?
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Did I put that in there?
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I did? But I think you may have, you know,
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mentioned something I think you.
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Had, like my name, like my full name, And I
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was like, oh, that's so romantic. You are a darling
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husband and my phone aw, And I don't think you
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did that. Jim would tell people that he could share
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anything with Molly. Not everyone was happy about Molly and
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James's relationship, though Molly's family and some of her friends
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didn't much care for James. Part of it was the
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age difference, but as Molly's brother Tim would later say,
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James gave off bad vibes. He wouldn't look you in
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the eye when he spoke to you. He didn't spend
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much time with Molly's family either, so they felt like
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he wasn't making much of an effort. Those close to
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Molly knew not to disparage James in front of her, though.
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When Mollie fell in love, she fell hard. She was stubborn,
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and any negative comment about the love of her life
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would just make her mad and push her closer to James.
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Her family and friends knew she would choose James if
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it came down to it. The couple dated for just
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over six years before she finally popped the question to
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him in twenty seventeen. He said yes, let's get married,
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and Mollie was over the moon.
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Making plans for the wedding, Molly was happier than she