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Hi, I'm Tina, and I'm rich And if there's one
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thing we've learned and over twenty years of marriage, it's.
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That some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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And some days you'll feel like killing your husband.
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Welcome to love, Mary Kill.
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Good afternoon, Richard.
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Good afternoon, Tina.
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How are you.
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I'm doing good? How are you good?
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We're finally getting some snow out there, yeah, but not
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really well with like a winter weather advisory, we're supposed
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to get like between two and four inches.
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But I know I have a bad feeling we are
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gonna be disappointed.
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Which it's funny that you're saying bad feeling because usually
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by this time at winter you're kind.
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Of like over it. I know, but I would like
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at least one good snowfall.
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And if we've had snow, but you haven't, we haven't
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had to shovel yet.
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No, that's how I count snowfalls as shoveling, Like how
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many times do you have to shovel?
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Right?
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Sure, so far zero, which.
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Is rare, and last winter it was only a couple
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Right now, you could.
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Count it on one hand. I have to ask why
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you called me Richard at the beginning, because usually when
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you call me Richard, I feel like I'm in trouble
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for something.
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That's your name. Oh okay, I like to I was
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going to call you Dick. It was like, I better not,
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because no, I don't. I believe no one with the
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name Richard goes by Dick anymore. I'm I could be wrong.
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I think you're correct. I think I've mentioned it before,
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but I was named after my uncle who went by Dick.
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And I was just looking the other day. Dick's sporting
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goods is out there, so I'm surprised there's not. I
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don't know. It's not making a comeback the name Dick.
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I think there's a reason it's not making it come back.
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All right, Maybe I'm not surprised.
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You do an excellent job of matching the snack with
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the episode, and I'm a little more lackadaisical about that,
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but not today. But today, I was just going to
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bring you some anabolic steeroids, because but what are wrestlers
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they eat?
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After part one? My impression is that it's bad, So
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I don't know if I want those. I don't think
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I do.
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So that was a really bad joke I did bring you.
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It's not a snack as much as a drink. Okay,
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do you know what it is?
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I heard the blender going. But yeah, so.
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When I wasn't feeling well, there's no alcohol. But you
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know what, I bet you could really put some alcohol
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in this when I wasn't feeling well. When I'm not
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feeling well, I want oranges, Like I eat a lot
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of oranges and clementines and things like that, and I
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don't know, I think they make me feel better. But
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I asked for an orange julius and you made me
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an orange julius. So I'm still not feeling amazing and
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to day, so, yeah, I made you an orange good
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that sounds really good. It's a different recipe than you
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tried before, and you made me, so you want to
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give it a try?
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Of course?
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What do you think of the orange julius?
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I think it's really good. It's just really like foamy
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and yeah, very tasty.
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How does this compare to the other recipe that you made?
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I think it's better.
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The recipe that you made used a whole can of
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orange juice consentra. I think I don't want to gross
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you out, but this recipe was two cups orange juice,
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one half cup heavy cream, two large pasteurized egg yolks, oh,
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a quarter cup of powdered sugar, one teaspoon pure vanilla,
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and a cup of ice. So those egg yolks. If
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I would have told you that beforehand, I'm not sure
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if you would have.
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Yeah, I mean, I know they use egg yolks and
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things like that, so it it doesn't gross me out
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too much. But no, I think it's really tasty.
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Actually, you know, I put a little more sugar in it,
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and I also did use probably about a quarter cup
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of orange juice concentrate because I didn't think it had
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a bunch of orange, like a good enough orange taste
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to it.
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Yeah, very good. Nine out of ten. Oh, I know
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that's such a bad rating. You told me last time
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I'm too easy, so I'm.
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Trying to feel a little I didn't mean, now you
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know what, I think. I'd give it a nine out
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of ten two excellent. Think you nailed it all right.
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Do you want to talk about Chris Benoit?
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I would love to, But before I do that, if
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you haven't listened to part one, you should go back
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and do that. WWE wrestler Chris Benoi, his wife Nancy,
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and their young son were found dead in their Georgia
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home on June twenty fifth, two thousand and seven, after
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Chris missed several wrestling shows. Wrestling consumed Chris's life, and
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he was deeply affected by the recent death of his
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best friend, fellow wrestler Eddie Guerrero. Chris's heavy steroid use
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and abusive behavior had previously prompted Nancy to file for divorce,
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though they later reconciled. In the weeks leading up to
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his death, Chris exhibited growing paranoia and depression.
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After Eddie Guerrero's death, the WWE, in an attempt to
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clean up their image, instituted the Wellness Program. The WWE
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claimed they were going to crack down on drug use,
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institute organization wide drug test, and screen talent for developing
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cardiac issues. But they were instituting this wellness program without
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really analyzing why are our athletes abusing? Yeah, drug and steroids?
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No one looking at the root cause, Yeah, No drugs
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without a prescription were allowed, not even an aspirin. As
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will become clear, this was only another extension of k fabe.
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The wellness checks were just for show. Even chrispin Waugh
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passed the test. Days before his death. The WWE, like
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any other business put in charge of regulating itself, had
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no interest in changing anything they didn't have to, especially
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if it was going to cost them time or money.
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Memorial benefit shows became a staple of WWE programming. As
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Chris's colleagues and friends all started dying left and right.
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Eddie was only one of many. In nineteen ninety nine,
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Owen Hart, brother of Rickhart and member of the Heart Dynasty.
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Remember we talked about the Heart Dynasty in the last
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episode and how Stuhart had trained so many dungeons. Yes,
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and his dungeon. Owen Hart, was tragically killed in an
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accident during a live taping. Heart was to be repelled
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into the ring from the catwalk when his harness broke,
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Vince made the decision to let the show continue. He
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rationalized this action by saying that the audience never saw
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what happened because the stadium had gone into darkness. Owen's
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blood remained in the ring while his devastated friends continued
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the show. His wife settled a lawsuit with the WWE
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for his wrongful death. Shinya Hashimoto, who Chris wrestled with
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in New Japan pro Wrestling died of a brain hemorrhage
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caused by high blood pressure on July eleventh, two thousand
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and five. He was only forty years old. Victor black
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Cat Mar, who trained Chris and the Dojo, died of
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a heart attack on June twenty eighth, two thousand and six.
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He was fifty one. Allan Bad News Coash, a colleague
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from Stampede, died of a heart attack on March twenty six,
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two thousand and seven. He was sixty three. Michael Lin Durham,
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better known as Johnny Grunge, was the straw that broke
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the Camel's back. Grunge was the Benois neighbor and had
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helped Chris process the grief that stemmed from Eddie's death.
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He was also the friend Chris turned to when he
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and Nancy fought. He was found out on February sixteenth,
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two thousand and six, having suffered a coronary artery blockage.
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He was forty years old.
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Oh my goodness.
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Eventually, Chris had attended so many w w E memorials
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that he decided to swear off of them. He could
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no longer muster the real misery he had to endure
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for the cameras it was too hard. Chris did his
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best to keep the feelings at bay. He was a
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practitioner of the old school of masculinity. Just ignore the
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feelings and they'd go away. Don't talk about them, don't
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ever be vulnerable with anybody. The feelings did come out,
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of course, but in more subconscious ways. He behaved even
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more recklessly than usual. He dove off of the top
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rope to perform the diving headbut even after he'd already
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broken his neck once doing it, he took an absurd
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amount of chair shots in the back of the head,
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which is something most professional wrestlers do not do. Whether
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it was steroids or CTE, or grief, or a combination
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of all of the above, Ben Whi's behavior at home
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became even more erratic. He was often distant, both physically
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and emotionally. Daniel only seven, often dialed his absent father.
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He couldn't understand why Chris never answered. It's hard to
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know the exact reason behind Chris's self isolation, but it's
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likely that he understood something was going wrong in his head,
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and he may have been frightened of what he'd do
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to his family if he were near them.
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I feel so sad for Daniel, not just because of
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what is going to happen that we're going to talk about,
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but just he obviously idolized his dad so much, and
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just in this at this point in time, he must
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have felt confused and sad that his dad was, you know,
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not spending time with him or right.
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I think they did go to some of his matches,
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so maybe he saw them more than we think that
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he saw them. Text messages between Chris and Nancy from
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May two thousand and seven are telling of the state
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of their marriage. Here are some snippets which give a
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good sense of how the relationship had dissolved. May fifth,
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Daniel has called twice today. You can't bother with him either.
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May ninth. Get off the crap you're on. It's making
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you passive aggressive, and I don't need the abuse. May tenth,
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you are a grown man with three kids. Set the example.
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Are you typing to say that is how you grew
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up watching your dad call your mom name and make
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her cry? No, then what gives you the right grow up?
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For mighty sakes, get off the stuff. It's obvious. I'm
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probably not the only one who can see and we
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both know the wellness program is a joke. On May
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twenty six, Nancy texted Chris about his two hundred and
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fifty thousand dollars life insurance policy. She was angry that
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he would refuse to make her the beneficiary. Quote, if
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you wanted your ex wife to have your retirement fund,
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you would have given it to her years ago with
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the divorce. If you wanted her to have more, you
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wouldn't have tried to hide your money. Now it's at
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the point where we are married. I come first.
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Do you know if he left his ex wife just
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because he didn't get around to changing it, or was
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there a reason why his ex wife was the beneficiary.
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Well, he had two kids with her. I'm not sure
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if that's why. I don't know if he intended to
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get another policy. Chris made between depending on the year,
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between four hundred thousand and a million dollars a year. Anytime,
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you know, any of his merchandise sold, he got kickbacks
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from that, so he was making good money. So the
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two hundred and fifty thousand dollars were you know, it's
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it's a lot of money, but you know, for Chris,
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I'm not sure if maybe that's why he didn't change
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it because, I mean he made more than in a year.
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Yeah, that wouldn't replace a whole lot of his income.
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Nancy tried her best to hold it together, but Chris's
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behavior began to take a toll on her Psyche. He
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became controlling when he was actually around. He would throw
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fits if she didn't cook him exactly what he wanted
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to eat. He would hide her car so she couldn't
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leave the house. Nancy confided in her neighbor Holly, that
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she'd been hitting the bottle pretty hard too, and occasionally
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even took some of Chris's pain pills, and every effort
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she'd made to moderate Chris only pushed him further away.
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In late January two thousand and seven, unsure of what
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else to do, she threw Chris's stash of steroids away.
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When he found out, he was so angry that he
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didn't come home for two weeks, and more people began
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to notice Chris's paranoia. His driver, Jimmy Bassball, has spoken
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about how Chris used to make him take different routes
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to and from the airport. He was always checking out
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the back window, concerned that somebody might be following him.
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He also talked a lot about the murder of Marissa Vasiri,
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the daughter of the famous Iron Cheek. Perhaps he was
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worried about the same thing happening to his children, though
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it's worth noting that Vizieri's death was not the result