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Hi, I'm Rich and I'm Tina.
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And if there's one thing we've learned in over twenty
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years of marriage.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your husband, and.
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Some days you'll feel like killing your wife.
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Welcome to love, Mary kill.
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Hey Tina, Hey Rich. How are you today?
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Good? How are you?
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I'm doing good? Did you forget the end of our opening?
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Well?
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Did you forget the beginning of our opening?
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I did have to do it a few times. I'm
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just you get in your head sometimes, like just saying
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something simple, and it's a struggle. Many years ago, when
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I was in the workplace, I would have to answer
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the phone, like we had phones on our desk and
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you would have to answer your phone and say, Hi,
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this is Rich, And I developed a mental block over that.
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I had really a hard time saying that.
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I first moved here to Michigan many years ago, I worked.
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We live in Washingtonaw County, and I had a job
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at Washingtonaw Mortgage, and I could not, like, by the
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end of the day, I was like, well, no, I
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could not say it. It was horrible because WASHINGTONA is
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because you have to pause Washtonaw.
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Yeah, that is that is understandable, but saying hi, I'm rich,
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or saying hi, this is rich. That shouldn't be that hard.
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Well, you have a very nice authoritative voice in general,
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so I think, just keep faking it all right. But
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it is funny because we made the decision that we
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would record the opening every time fresh and some days
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we regret that.
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Some days it's a little hard. Well, we got to
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get going on this case because we have a big
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day ahead of us. So not only are the Tigers
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doing really well, they're in first place. Yes, they're playing
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this afternoon, but Tiger also got the final round of
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the Masters Golf Tournament.
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Okay, and we care about that because while.
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Rory McElroy and Bryce and Deshambeau are in the final
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pairing and that's like a huge rivalry, that's like the
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biggest rivalry since Tiger Woods and Phil Nicholson. So okay,
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it's gonna be very very excited, right.
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Well, I thought we were supposed to go out to
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dinner later, so is that I'm not sure if we're
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going to be able to go to Buffalo Wild Wings
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so we can watch all this sports activity.
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Yeah. Maybe.
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So Okay, I'm going to ask you a question, and
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I really do want the answer? How are the Cubs doing?
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Oh, I have no idea. I'll check. Hold on just
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a second, I like, check. Well, you'll be happy to
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know that the Cubs are also doing really well. They
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are in first place in their division.
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Maybe I knew that, and I just wanted you to
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reinforce it and have to see it on air. I
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actually did not know that. That's good. That's great to
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hear diehard Cubs fan. I don't think I can call
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myself a diehard Cubs fan when I had no idea
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if they were winning or losing.
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That's okay, you can still be a fan. I brought
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you a snack. I think you're gonna like this.
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I just see the knife and that makes me a
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little nervous.
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We're just gonna be cutting something. But remember the other
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day we were watching the Amazing Race and they were
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making mochi balls. They were in Japan, yes, and I
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thought it's really cool because they have to like they
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use like rice and they pound it with a big Yeah.
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That looks tough.
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Yeah, And I thought that'd be it'd be fun to
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try to make that if you could make it. So
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I googled it and I didn't make you mochi balls.
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But what I found was something I didn't know existed.
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And it's a it's a chain called Mochi Nut. Have
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you ever heard of mochi nut? So it's donuts and
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they're made of mochi.
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So rice like, yeah, okay.
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So and this is like a chain, Like there's one
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hundred and eighty of these around the US, and they're
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also in really Thailand and South Korea as well, not
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near US. I had a little ways, but but.
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Yeah, wow, that's a big that's a big box.
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I got six of them.
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So to have you tried one?
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I haven't tried them yet. I've been dying too, so
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let's let's give him a try.
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That's very exciting.
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What did you think about the mochi nuts?
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Well, thank you. That was a really fun surprise. Oh
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they're really good. I don't think it would be like, hey,
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let's let's get those over regular donuts. Yeah, but yeah,
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they're really yummy.
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I thought they looked really attractive, like they're kind of
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fancy looking. But I didn't Yeah, I didn't love the
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texture of them. They were kind of like che bungey. Yeah. Yeah,
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so they were they were good.
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I don't know if I would seek them out.
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I think I would give them an eight out of ten.
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Yeah, I would give them like a seven out of ten.
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Yeah. I tried a little bite of three of them,
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and I think my favorite was the like just original,
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kind of like the original two very interesting.
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Well, thank you, sure thing.
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I would say you redeemed yourself from from yesterday.
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I am no longer the worst husband in the world.
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You were never the worst. Actually you're probably among the best.
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But don't get a big head.
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All right, I'll try that too. Okay, Well, let's get
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back to our story. Would you like to give us
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a summary of part one?
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Absolutely? Then. Novak, also known as Benji, was the son
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of a wealthy real estate magnate. His father built a
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Fontainebleau hotel in Miami Beach. He grew up in the hotel, spoiled,
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with very little parental involvement or supervision. By all accounts,
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he was a spoiled little tyrant, and he was obsessed
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with Batman. He met Narcisa Velis Pincheco while she was
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working in a strip club. Narsy, as she was called,
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had a daughter named May who she didn't really care
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about at all. Narcy moved in with Benji and later
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married him. She shipped her daughter off to live with
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her sister. At this point, Benji was a terrible husband,
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cheating on Nursey regularly making her get rest in plants
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without her consent. She was undergoing some other procedures.
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She was undergoing a nose job, and he had the
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doctor give her breast implant is nuts.
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In June two thousand and two, Narsy had some men
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come in and beat up Benji. Then they tied him
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up while she took cash and other valuables before leaving
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over four hundred thousand dollars.
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According to him. Right okay.
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However, they ended up reconciling and Benji declined to press charges.
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Benji was also obsessed with like he wanted to be
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a police officer.
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Like Yes, he wanted to be a crime fighter. And
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he actually had a job as a reserve officer that
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he worked. I think it was only two days a month,
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but he he was obsessed with crime fighting. He wanted
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to be a superhero. I guess there were a few
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bumpy patches. After the home invasion, Benji filed for divorce.
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Narsi filed for a restraining order, but eventually the two
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forgave each other and dropped all of the legal proceedings.
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Every attorney and police officer and judge that came into
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contact with the case were astounded when they learned that
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the two had reconciled. Many were concerned that next time
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Narsi may actually kill him. The conclusion most of them
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came to was that Benji was just too worried about
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his amputee porn fetish becoming known. Yeah, I'm sorry to
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have to bring that up again. The Miami Police, which
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as we mentioned, Benji was still a reserve member of,
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did an independent in vestsstigation into the home invasion. They
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came to the conclusion that Benji was a liability to
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the police department. Any association with him would only prove
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embarrassing to the department. At some point, they informed him
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that he could either retire or they would fire him.
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Benji chose to save face and officially retired, claiming that
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he was too busy with his convention business anyway. Benji's mom, Bernice,
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never forgave Narsi for the home invasion. If you remember
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from part one, Bernice hated Narsi. She was just they
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didn't get along at all. She was so disturbed by
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the home invasion and by Benji's insistence in staying with
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Narci that she went to counseling to cope with it.
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She was appalled by the few details that she had
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heard about Narsi and Benji's bondage kink and chose not
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to believe them. Her ben Junior could never be into
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filthy stuff like that. She hated having to see Narci
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every day. They saw each other every day because they
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both worked at Benji's business, Convention Concepts Unlimited. Bernice looked
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into Santaia. Have you ever heard of Santoria? It's like
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a It's a religion. It's an Afro Cuban religion. It's
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focused on building relationships with the spirits. Okay, So she
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looked into that and voodoo as well, because apparently Narsi
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had at least allegedly been affiliated with those beliefs during
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her youth growing up in Ecuador.
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And Bernice have voodoo spelled v o d ou? Is
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that an spelling or slightly different?
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I think it's that's like the proper spelling of it.
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But Apparently Bernice became convinced that Narsi had Benji under
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some sort of spell, and that's why he stayed with us.
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So another mom who just thinks her son is perfect. Yes,
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my son is perfect.
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I don't just think that exactly. No longer able to
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prowl the streets pretending to be Batman and looking for
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crimes to stop, Benji now had to live vicariously through
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his obsession with Batman collectibles, so he dove headfirst back
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into his Batman hoarding.
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How how much Batman memorabilia can one man have? I
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believe you said he had three warehouses full plus like
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it was all over their house.
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Yes, there's a lot of Batman memorabilia. Out of the scene.
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His Batman collection seems like it was maybe a way
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for him to cope with his dysfunctional marriage and its
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dysfunctional life, I guess in a lot of ways. And
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maybe it was a reason also to speak with people
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other than his wife. So he became familiar and even
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friendly with a lot of the Batman memorabilia dealers in
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the US, and he would often call them up to
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chat about the caped crusader. Benji leaned on his mother
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for emotional support. Whenever he and Narsi were fighting, which
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was almost always. Bernice became deeply depressed by the situation.
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Tired of always having to be the mediator between the two,
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her doctor prescribed xanax. Also, her asthma, which had always
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been an issue for her, flared up quite badly. Now
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she would often suffer from attacks in her sleep. In
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order to cope, Bernice sought retail therapy. She actually got
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banned from Bloomingdale's because of how many clothes she would
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buy and then momptly return because she didn't actually need
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or even want any of the clothes. She just liked
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going out with her friends and spending money in front
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of them.
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A listener, I have to tell you that Rich asked
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me if retail therapy was actually a thang off air.
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Yes. I was not familiar with that.
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Well, you're like the anti retail therapist exactly.
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The other day when we went to Costco, everything's going
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to go back to that trip now. I was like, well,
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why don't you, you know, look for some new shorts
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or something. You were like, I don't need anything. I'm
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like what you do?
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Yes, therapy for me is staying home while you go
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out retail shot. When Benji turned fifty in two thousand
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and six, he had a last will and testament drawn up.
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The prenuptial agreement that he had with Narsi was now voided.
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The estate, he decided would be left to his mother
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if she was still alive, and Narsi would only get
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two hundred thousand dollars and half of their house. If
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Bernice was no longer alive when he passed, then Narsi
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would get everything.
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So Narsi and Benji had been married twenty ish years
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at this point.
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I think, so something like that.
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Do you think Benji kept his will to himself?
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I don't know. That's a good question.
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Do most people keep the contents of their will to themselves?
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I never really thought about that, but.